What does it really mean when a guy grabs your ass?

when a guy grabs your ass what does this mean and what is he thinking when he does it ...i was just wondering because it happened.

guys he's not my boyfriend he's avtually an ex boyfriend that still get off the wrong way towards me because he thinks I still like him he is such and ASS!


Most Helpful Guy

  • I use to do it when I am hanging out with a girl I like, I have been making out with her but not sexually yet. It is a good place to start telling her that you are interested in something else and not asking it directly (which reduces the possibilities of success by the way). I think that girls find it less offensive than grabbing their breasts unexpectedly or other places, and you can do it easily while dancing or making out and while standing. I would definitely not do it to a girl I don't know or think in the inside that she is going to get mad about it. You have to take your chances though... :)


What Guys Said 6

  • I 'd never do it to a woman I don't date, but I like to do it.

  • it means the guy is looking to get slapped, maced, arrested, ect.

    it doesn't matter if yor offended or turned on, it shows a lack of respect to you.

  • It means that you have just been sexually assaulted and can now count yourself amongst those numbers.

  • well I really don't think when I to do it, its just arousing lol but be a little more detailed, do you mean in public or Private cuzz I would never grab my girls ass in public (hate being the center of attention) but in private ill rub the hell out of it... why? Because to me (Meaning just me and possible to other guys) the ass is equivalent to boobs in the way that their fun to grab and look at for no reason at all other than sexual arousal.

  • Pure sexual gratification, he either figures he'll get away with it, or he figures the brief thrill is worth a smack in the face.

    • Calling it sexual assault is overly dramatic. I think the ever expanding definitions of rape and sexual assault cheapen the terms, and do a disservice to victims of the real thing.

    • So don't listen to the potato! lol

What Girls Said 7

  • That means that they can think they can do whatever they want to you and you won't get mad

  • I don't see it as a bad way when my boyfriend does it. He rarely does it anyways, so I know that when he does grab my ass, he is a little worked up/admiring my ass. That's how I see it ^^

    NOW If it were a random stranger... I'd kick his ass >_>

  • If he's your ex and you've talked to him about how you no longer have feelings for him, then the next time he does it, flip your lid. Hard. Wig out on him and make him back off. Giggle at your vengeance later.

    If you do still have those pesky feelings for him, then talk to him and ask him why he continues to push your buttons. Because there are chances that that's his immature way of saying he likes you and wants to get back together.

  • It means he wants to fck you and thinks you have a nice ass this guy recently been grabbing my ass and I didn't say anything cause we are friends

  • I think that guys grab women's butts because they want to keep a girl wondering on what he is going to do next. I believe that when a guy grabs a girls butt its to make her feel sexual and turned on if you say. guys are also known as to "getting their hands dirty" so that may be another reason why.

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