Start out slow, so we can enjoy the sensation and get used to it (it's NOT like riding a bike). Then, have your way with her. Sometimes, I like a little clit stimulation, just to get me over the edge, othertimes it's totally and completely distracting. And don't forget about the breasts (those can feel even better!) And whether or not I need something else plus that to orgasm, is totally dependent on the day and how much foreplay.
I like it fast and rough eventually, after I've gotten uses to it and we go a little slower for a bit. It depends on the mood of the moment really. Clitoral stimulation is needed for ME to orgasm from it, I can't orgasm from anal alone. But I've usually already gotten mine by the time we get there, so I don't worry too much about clitoral stimulation during anal, just once in a while.
start out slow... very slow, this is the time to be sensual and get me really into it. if he is successful in getting me into it, it almost always goes to crazy hard pounding... you just have to go through the proper work up for it
Anal sex is a very dominant act and therefore she's usually in a submissive place. That means she wants to be taken however he wants her and a lot of us guys have a little dom in us (and sometimes a little sadist as well), so we just go for it. How we start is up to her. While most gals like to start slowly, a few gals I've been with just want to be speared and reamed.
I think most females love some "hard and rough" in every session of sex.
Either starting off slow then speeding up, or a whole session of her man being manly and owning her body. ;-)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!enter in slow let us adjust after were used to it go wild! I don't need my clit to be rubbed but it feels so good
slow and gentle to start..and with the proper lube..hope he goes for it(long and hard) I love it but he usually cums while doing it
Slow then hard.
now anal sex is about tenderness lol
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