Black girls: do you like white guys?

[Anonymous]

Black girls, do you like white guys? would you have sex with white guys?

[LiddowCupiid]

I see lots of different people as attractive however just like Freetobe, I have been approached by white guys and when it would come up about what they were looking for, 9x of 10 its to know what its like to have sex with a different race and just to experiment with it until they're done. Some are blunt and some mask it, but the intent when it came out was always the same which is sad because we are Women like any other race and were looked at as an erotic/exotic trip to take. I don't like when men come up to me and expect me to drop panties because its new and they're interested to f*** a black girl. Some people are fine with that, but when was approached about these matters by a white guy and I said "No you got the wrong one" it came as a shock to them and I guess they see me and think I just have sex because they want to or ask to. I'd DATE anyone I was attracted to and saw eye to eye with.

My ex was white and I loved him and we didn't work out but that wasn't his mindset. I won't just have sex with just anyone. Sex is the last connection you make with a person, at least for me so if sex was going to happen that means we are sharing a life/future together.

It doesn't matter with who sex will be sex

[fefe884]

very good answer.

[LiddowCupiid]

Thanks

[DrumNB4ssDubst3p]

i was enjoying your answer and then I read "drop my panties" and I started getting all hot and bothered...

[Freetobe007]

Some of them are very attractive, but honestly, I never take them seriously.

I've had quite a few white guys approach me and try to get my number but I lie and say I have a boyfriend or something. This is because I'm aware that a lot of white guys just want to experiment with black girls and simply use us for sex objects. Yet, they don't want to take us home to mom and let their friends know they're with a black girl. Plus, I always feel like I can't get too comfy around white people because they may make a racist joke or comment. So yeah, there are some hot white guys, but I don't ever see myself pursuing anything more from them besides eye candy.

[PoeticNinja]

Hmm, that's interesting. I never ran into such a problem, maybe it's just the area we're in.

[DutchAtheist]

You'd be uncomfortable? Imagine me meeting a whole black family, especially if you have like 5 older and protective brothers... I guess we all are a bit shy when it comes to dating outside our race...

[zolly9999]

I don't see color only beauty. If I am attracted to a girl I don't care where she from, color of her skin or what ever. And I treat all my lady friends with the same respect and caring ! :)

[Freetobe007]

Yeah, PoeticNinja, I've seen examples of this answer in many different situations. I don't think I'd ever feel completely comfortable getting too close to a white guy in terms of a relationship. I know it's a tad bit ignorant and unfair, but I'm just being honest. I realize not all white guys are that way, but so many of them are that it's like I'd rather avoid it all together than risk ending up in a bad sitaution. I'd date a European guy. Some foolish, slighlty idiotic people may say "Well

[Freetobe007]

they're white too." But there's a difference due to American culture that tends to make white males very entitled and ignorant when it comes to all ethnic groups. I'm sure there are some racist, ignorant Europeans with white skin too, but chances are it may be more dominant in an American white guy.

[Freetobe007]

@DutchAtheist, it's not that I generally feel uncomfortable around white people. I just wouldn't feel totally comfortable getting extremely close to a white guy in terms of a relationship. I'd feel like I have to always be ready for him to make a racist joke or comment. I'd feel like I might as well expect him to slip up and say the and word at some point and time, like I need to emotionally be expectant of it so that I'm not too hurt when/if it happens. I wouldn't want to deal with possible

[Freetobe007]

ignorant, entitled ass grandparents who act like my purpose alive is to please them because they're white. If I met a white guy and we had great chemistry, I'd go for it, but 9.5/10 times, I don't go around looking for a white guy and when they approach me, I brush them off.

[PoeticNinja]

I can understand that. Just like how some would date an Asian because of some sort of fetish they have. All that comes into play and it can really limit the guys we date.

[Freetobe007]

lol @ GAG spellcheck; the and word, not the AND word. n-i-double g-e-r. PoeticNinja, yeah it can but sometimes that's a good thing. See, I'd be pissed if I was Asian and a handfull of guys only looked at me with interest because of some weird fettish. It's like you've been objectified before they even said hello. That's one thing I worry about if I were to have babies with a Latino or a non-black (non-white) guy; would my little girl be objectified by little black boys or whoever? : / ...

[leximarie]

this was a wonderful answer and touches on everything I have felt about it and have discussed with some of my other friends, you'd get BA from me!

[Married-in-PA]

I understand how you feel ~ and I hate to say this ~ but you are not wrong... my Father was racist, but I am not... I was educated at Rutgers University, NJ. I love women with nice curves, and big dark eyes, I don't care if she is white black, yellow, green, purple,etc.

[Freetobe007]

thanks, leximarie! :D Married-in-PA, yeahhh, I know this might be a touchy answer, but I'm just being sincere. I realize not all white guys are this way, but such a significant amount are that it has convinced me it's better for me to be overly-cautious then to risk putting myself in that situation and getting really hurt.

[RedThread]

I'm sorry that you've been treated in such a way that has you skeptical like this. There are a lot of guys who aren't like that too. My dad dated a black girl seriously in high school and he's almost 60 now so that was long before it was socially acceptable. He raised us kids to be equally open minded and respectable towards all women. I hope you encounter some nicer people. I do have white friends that make some racist jokes in bad taste so I agree that it can happen. Anyway nice answer!

[Freetobe007]

RedThread, it's not even a specific way I've been treated. It's just what informaiton I have collected and what I have learned from others' experiences. Like I said, I realize not all white guys are like this. This is just my own personal over-catiousness that I may or may not get over with time. Thanks for the compliment though :)

[CheckHerOutBruh]

Yes and Yes

[CheckHerOutBruh]

Thanx 4 Best Answer!

[Anonymous]

Don't let the girls on here fool you. There are some, but they are few and far between.

[EngineeringStudent]

This site has shown me that there is no shortage of Black girls who like White guys.

[7gnat]

And it doesn't take an engineering student to see that right? :P

[DutchAtheist]

I'll say, I never would have guessed without GAG...

[7gnat]

Is this a new question... link

[Cottoncandydreams]

lol

[peace-love-couture]

My boyfriend is white and the other guys I've gone out with/talked to were white

So yes, but being a white male doesn't automatically mean I they're dating material or that I'd date them/f*** them

[leximarie]

yes, and If I was in a serious relationship with one then of course we would be having sex with one another.

[RaeBae]

What can I say? Lol I mean a white guy was my first crush 😍 and then came along black guys and next was mixed guys. I try not to look at race when it comes to dating, but yea I like em. Matter of fact all my college crushes this year have been white. Yet I've only dated one guy so far, and he was black like me (we're both caramel colored). But yea i like them it jus seems hard sometimes to get a white guy to notice you. Like they notice you and hang with you etc, but its like are they willing to date you? And most people think the only white guys who date black girls are the ones who try to act a certain way but hey, i just want a guy to be himself

[XxNatashaxX]

of course, my boyfriend is white lol but I like all kinds of guys

[Shannon18]

Sure some white guys are good looking, I don't know if I could imagine settling with one. As I like my mixed race and black guys. I like guys to have something about them, not saying white guys don't. I just don't feel sexually and emotionally attracted to them. They don't appeal to me as much as other races!

[jpinka]

yes ans yes

[cece97]

Yes and yes but I don't think I could actually be in a relationship with one tbh but that's just me :)

[fefe884]

I'm attracted to guys of all races, so yes I'm attracted to white guys.

I wouldn't have sex with anyone till marriage so...ya.

[fefe884]

A lot of girls are saying that white guys only use us as a sex experiment. I don't know how true that is but if that's why white guys approach me, they've got a whole different thing coming lol. ANd I guess if you would ask that question of if we would have sex with white guys, then maybe what other girls are saying about white guys is true, otherwise, you wouldn't have asked that second question -_-

[G-Daz]

Shame :( but I highly respect you waiting

[PoeticNinja]

Yes and yes. - It never crossed my mind that a white guy would never take a black girl home or anything in that aspect.

Not all white guys are datable though.

[zolly9999]

Nice And I agree

[G-Daz]

Hopefully! :D

[hotcaribbeanbarbie]

Yep. My boyfriend is white as it relates to your sex part though, I would not engage in casual sex with black white pink purple nobody. I realize that lots of white guys have sexual fantasies about black women for some reason. why is that?

[knotme]

I love All men and have had white. I like tasting the rainbow

[RBD12]

yes i do like white guys.

[lamera]

yes and yes I would

[Snohomishprincess]

No, I will pass.

[bel42]

I only like the guys I'm physically attracted to. Though usually most of the white guys just want sex and nothing serious so I pass on them. I don't want to be used as a sex toy. Very few of them want to pursue a serious long term relationship.

[HMGxx]

Yes definitely :)

[stef10]

lol yes! I find most white guys to be really attractive.

[zolly9999]

Nice :)

[KiaTate]

Yes I like white men and I would have sex with him if I know him well enough

[darkandexquisite]

I'm only attracted to white guys, so yes I would