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How do you get a girl to give you a bj?

i want my girlfriend to give me one because I haven't had it happen to me before and my friends say its the most amazing feeling but I don't know how to get one from her? I asked a friend of mine for some advice and she said ''first of all you can't ask a girl to give you a blowjob because she is either gonna be really grossed out or think your pervy creep if she just does it then she will do it and if not then she's not gonna do it you can ask her but it may get awkward but you never know sometimes people just know what there suppose to do and if she doesn't do it then leave it at that'' those were my friends exact words do you think she is right or is there anther way to get my girlfriend to give me a blowjob?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it's okay to ask. Sometimes it's weird to offer because girls know all guys want them so when they don't ask you start to wonder if you're dating a really weird guy. Then if you offer and he doesn't act enthusiastic about it, you feel really slutty. So just ask if you want it, but say so nicely and while you're already in the moment. Don't make her feel like she has to and it won't be as awkward and she'll probably do it. But sometimes it's best to just ask, especially if she's never given one before.

  • It will be only the most amazing feeling if the girl does it correctly!

    Its not creepy or perverted to ask your own girlfriend to do something sexual with you.

    The only way I can really answer this question is,

    Have you and your girlfriend been intimate at all?

    I am guessing not.

    If so, sit down and tell her you'd like to take your relationship to the next level.

    See how she reacts to this.

    • no we haven't had any intimacy at all

    • So, this is something you should sit down and discuss (see if she feels comfortable being intimate in any form). Before you ask that question.

  • I wouldn't straight up ask unless you have been doing at least something before. What I would do if I were you is too go down on her first then ask although you probably won't need to. I find that after he gives me pleasure I am more then happy to give it back.

    • that can happen but I don't really want to come out and say can I eat you out and we haven't been intimate at all yet so I'm just afraid of how she will react even if I said can I eat you out

    • One day if you are making out you could just try to kiss her neck then a bit lower and a bit lower slowly and see how see reacts. Then offer. But, make sure the mood is right and you too are relaxed. And one more thing you need to be COMFORTABLE with her, if you are not okay with talking about anything intimate you probably are not ready yet.

    • thank you for the advice :)

Most Helpful Guy

  • perfect the art of being pervy, but not creepy LOL. more girls than you think really enjoy being around such guys.

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  • Sadly this is the answer you will most likely no use but ask her my boyfriend did I said maybe one day but no as of now. Try it.

  • I don't see why she should think you're a creep for asking for a blowjob if you're dating. I mean respect her if she's not comfortable with it, but a healthy sexual relationship should allow both people to communicate what they want.

    Just ask her.

    • thanks alot

  • Why don't you ask her if SHE wants to be eaten out and then she will reciprocate. You know, teamwork one hand washes the other you can't just get something for nothing.

    • i know but she doesn't really seem like the type to say out of the blue do you wanna eat me out noo she wouldn't say that

    • I said to ask her if she wants to be eaten out or at least try to eat her out and then ask for her to return the favor. That way you seem like a halfway decent person

    • ok thanks

  • Just ask her. She's your girlfriend, not a stranger, she should react somewhat like "Oh cool okay sure, you should have asked earlier."

    • lol I hope so

  • How far have you two gotten?

    • just making out and I squeezed her boobs a few times

    • Get her hands on your crotch will making out and see how she behaves.

  • Get a new gf

  • You flirt properly, get to know her, and ask. Better yet, let things take their natural course. Things usually move in that direction anyhow.

    • how would I ask though?

    • My ex used to ask while we were making out, when we were just over the edge, "Do you want me in your mouth?" It took a while for me to get used to the idea -- I'd never been with anyone else -- but one day I tried it and liked it a lot more than I had thought possible. I don't know if it's because I loved him or because I just liked that, but his approach worked.

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