What does he mean with "take it easy"?

[Anonymous]

so I'm really sexually attracted to this guy. he's my boyfriends friend :|..its a long story but pretty much he and I went out as friends for coffee since we both work nearby, with my boyfriend knowing. we spoke for a while, and during most of our convo we were both laughing really hard, we have a LOT in common but he ended the convo with "take it easy"..? i know for a fact he was looking at my chest (he was trying to do it discretely by looking at my 'drink' but obvi it wasn't), and to me it seemed as though we had great chemistry, but I don't know how he feels. he kept saying "its none of my business but" and would ask about my relationship with my bf. he knows we've been dating for a while, but I told him that we've been 'off and on'. can anyone please explain what this means(the chest stares, but the confusing message)?i'm really falling for this guy (but I can't decide if its lust or love) and I'd love to hear some opinions

[ilovelegs]

The phrase "take it easy' is the way some guys say Bye, Take care, See you later, Talk with you later, etc. I'm sure he wasn't telling you slow down or showing interest or disinterest in anyway. As far as asking about your relationship he was more than likely just asking you stuff about your life and maybe wondering how you and your boyfriend are doing. That could mean he has some interest but probably not. If left you without your thinking he was flirting with you or being extra nice to you then he was just being nice and respecting the relationship you have going. No more than that. If he's interested you'll hear from him again. If he looked at your chest it was probably because you look good there but other than looking there where was he suppose to look... in your eyes... at the ceiling... at someone else around there? When I talk with some girl I've found myself looking at her. Usually it's her face or eyes somewhat and if she has nice boobs I might even glance there a time or two. lol! Be glad he found you attractive.

[l-hedoniste]

LOL...That's the ticket. From now on, if the girls hot, I'm staring at the ceiling. They can't resist!

[ilovelegs]

Haha! Sureeee you will. lol!

[l-hedoniste]

First, "Take it easy" when parting usually means "See you later."

Second, a discreet glance at a woman's chest is, as you guessed, meaningless.

Now, from me to you, be extra-careful. You clearly get a serious charge from this guy, and the feeling may even be mutual. So if you're going to do what you clearly have every intention of doing, discretion, discretion, discretion. Leave no clues. Feign indifference. Be a super-loving, super-sexy girlfriend--keep your man happy. Make sure the other guy does the same. Get your stories straight. In other words, get your cheating-girlfriend rigmarole down pat. You can do this--for a while, even--but what'll kill you, if anything, is sloppiness. If you're the undisciplined type, don't even attempt it.

Remember, you have both your relationship with your boyfriend AND his to consider.

[Asker]

Oh no no no no no...i would never cheat. I'm not that type of person. if anything I'd break up with my boyfriend first before pursuing anything further. I was just wondering what he could have meant by the 'take it easy' and chest stares. thanks though :)

[l-hedoniste]

Ok, gotcha, you're not a cheater. BUT, if you slip, and accidentally land on your hot boy's crotch, remember: ditching a good relationship for a good lay is wasteful. So don't dump your boyfriend if you screw him, okay?

[Anonymous]

it means he knows he can make you cheat anytime anywhere but you need to control yourself . TAKE IT EASY don't cheat on your boyfriend . break up with him first if you wanna f*** this guy