Is it a turnon to speak another language during sex?

[peace-love-couture]

You're having sex with your partner who happens to speak another language or be of another nationality and they begin speaking their language. Say it's french or Spanish, is it a turn on? What if it's something rough like German Anyways, turn on, turnoff or neither? I'm not really turned on by accents or other languages But I think Portuguese would be the one to make me melt I can speak Spanish but I'm not sure I'd actually give into the whole Hispanic girl fantasy

[kdizzleforizzle91]

Spanish would turn me on in a hurry. I might not be able to speak it as well as I could a few years ago, but I can understand enough to get the basic gist of what's being said if the person isn't speaking too fast... not that that even matters. Just the accent and the sound of the language and how smoothly it flows makes me hot... lol

[indian_empress_91]

If my guy was latin and he was hot,... hell yessss!

[ThatBritishLad]

It's funny: Back in August I finally got into bed with a girl, but when she started speaking Spanish I had a flashback to the Falklands and went into a brief spasm. Suffice to say, I awoke alone and butt-naked :O

[peace-love-couture]

I appreciate your anecdote

[ThatBritishLad]

I still get the shivers whenever I hear castanets :(

[TheUglyOne]

Yes it's a big turn on to me when my wife gets off in Chinese.

[peace-love-couture]

does she speak Mandarin or Cantonese? I can't tell which is which, but my roommate changes up when she's talking to her parents and I like one better than the other because it's more smooth

[TheUglyOne]

Mandarin, and her local language Fuzhounese, and a little bit of Shanghainese too. But very little English lol.

[peace-love-couture]

... since I like you, I'm gonna avoid calling this whole situation creepy but if I thought you were a weirdass, I'd say that last part is extremely creepy

[TheUglyOne]

I won't deny I am weird but I don't intend to come off creepy. Which last part, that my wife doesn't speak much English? She doesn't, though.

[peace-love-couture]

yeah, that's weird I tend to think negatively of guys who marry foreign women, but to each their own

[TheUglyOne]

LOL but not women though, yes? Hehe, you are not alone, lot of American women think I am bad for being with a foreign women. Of course these are the very same women who called me a hideous beastman lol.

[peace-love-couture]

Not many American women marry foreign guys lol I've not heard much of mail order husbands, unless they do exist But I think it's perverted and sick, because most stories I've heard the guys are major perverts and abusive, so I kind of just think badly about it.

[TheUglyOne]

True, it's usually the other way & haven't heard them either. Yes but if a guy is abusive he'd still be abusive to an American woman, the only thing different is a foreign woman wouldn't know she had options. And not all guys are abusive, and some of the women are equally perverted lol, well at least kinky anyway.

[peace-love-couture]

I just feel like there's something wrong with someone who feels the need to go to another country and pick a partner who can't even comprehend what they're saying. There's something sick about it, just a dominance thing but in an inappropriate way...but that's just moi To each their own

[J_White90]

It's pretty much only a turn on for me if it's Spanish, since it's the only other language where I could understand what it is she's saying for dirty talk.

[Konnour]

It's OK, unless it's russian 'coz in that case I become soft!

[goodman101]

HAHAHAHA!!!

[G_GTom]

Turn off, because I want to know what's going on.

[mattygfromtheMD32]

Mmm, Arabic :)

[mischiefmouth69]

If I was having sex with someone for whom English was not their first language, and she was experiencing so much pleasure she began speaking in her native language, that would definitely be a turn-on.

[Anonymous]

no because I don't understand it so you might as well be speaking gibberish.

[Anonymous]

Not a turn on or a turn off

[Anonymous]

It is definitely a turn on but if the girl is a stick figure it is even hotter (5 stars)

[peace-love-couture]

stop it! you're turning me on again!

[Opinion Owner]

Elmo will give you a platonic massage and that should help you get your "sticky" mind off things.

[peace-love-couture]

I used to like Grover I could have sworn they were related Bert and Ernie!

[Opinion Owner]

I think there is much incest going on at old Sesame Street

[goodman101]

I'm out of lotion :-)