first off don't worry about sex its no were near as painful as people say
and fingering well its just a bit of a taboo issue with some girls and if your not comfortable with doing it that's your choice and is fine
but honestly hun when you have sex you will be relaxed and it won't be near as bad as you think
i personally don't think fingering yourself is discusting I mean what are we ment to do wait for a fella to come to us? lol
You're not alone, I don't really enjoy it that much, though it's a lot better when a guy's doing it, honestly.
That bit about sex hurting if you don't finger yourself is a bunch of crap, I know from experience, don't let that scare you.
And there are other ways of pleasuring yourself. . . so don't worry too much. :]
yeah me too, it doesn't feel good if I do it to myself...actually the only guy to ever have fingered me was really bad so I actually have no idea what "good" is supposed to feel like when it comes to sexual things.
Wow. How sad. I hope the Easter bunny brings you a good lay.
Did you feel anything pleasurable while fingering yourself ? Exactly what did you do with your fingers...just stick em inside you ?
Pretty much and it was gross feeling
You might want to try pleasuring yourself on the outside of your vagina first.
I do.
I've known girls who feel the same way, so don't worry.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!try playing with your clit, and as your about to cum, stick 1 or two fingers deep inside you and go for it, but still playing with your clit at the same time... haha trust me, you'll get the hang of it, and it will feel great!
your not alone! =)
omg I think its sick too
its going to hurt anyways.
Try thinking of a guy you like and then try it and see if it feels any better. Sometimes girls will only like something when they are in the moment either actually having sex or thinking about having sex with a guy they like/are with.
no your not the only one I'm 20 years old and I still find it uncomfortable for me I just never been into at all.
Honestly no, I'm the same way. I just find it disturbing and get weirded and grossed out. I also don't find any pleasure what so ever in fingering myself. But I can assure you just because you don't finger yourself does not mean having sex is going to hurt.
I don't necessarily think it's gross, but I don't like to do it either.
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