What is a "landing strip"? How much to shave off?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend keeps trying to.. go down on me, but he always complains there is too much hair. I shaved off everything and now I have major major awful razor burn. He's still willing to finger me with razor burn (which I think is a little crazy), but how do I get enough hair off down there? I shaved off everything I felt I could get too and he still complained! He's not one of those guys who "loves vag" so that might be part of the problem. Does it really have to be ALL of it? I feel like it looks really bad/immature if it's all gone! And the pain of re-growth is almost not even worth it! Help!

[Anonymous]

Use a fresh razor, warm water and a good shaving cream and you'll have little or no problem with the razor burn. It'll itch like hell the first couple weeks, but that goes away. I know what you mean about the appearance being shockingly juvenile--I was really taken aback the first time my girlfriend shaved it all off--but I got used to it and that doesn't bother me any more. These days, it's downright commonplace. An expensive alternative to shaving yourself of course is to have a pro wax you. The results are very nice, probably better than anything you can do yourself. I'm a bit dubious about your boyfriend's complaints of too much hair if you've just shaved--a little stubble isn't actually going to interfere. Again though, don't be put off by the discomfort as your hair starts to grow in: it is truly awful, but you really do just stop feeling it after you've been shaving awhile.

[Asker]

ohhh so that pain goes away? yeah, he said to just keep doing it. I was like, seriously? I'm thinking about having it waxed. is it terrible if I ask him to pay for like half of it? or all of it? haha

[AustinMan]

My gals all got waxed. If you're kinky and a masochist, let him do it. It hurts for a minute but then you're baby smooth with no rash or infection. When the hair comes back out, it's finer and more sparse each time. You can also use some hair removal products but be careful as they can inflame your interior tissues.

[Asker]

woah. that's dark. haha. I actually really like waxing. I mean, I've had my brows wax and I kind of like the small amount of pain and then how it really doesn't hurt at all. not sure if I'd trust him though hahaha

[AustinMan]

Is he sadistic sexually? It's huge fun to watch her suffer while she's all turned on at the same time.

[Asker]

um. I'm not sure... I told him I get that vibe from him and he said that I give it to him.. which is why he acts that way... one time he fingered me for like an hr... and every time I got close he'd take it away or tell me not yet not yet. does that count? lol

[AustinMan]

Oh yes! That for sure counts. Some time right after, tell him you want to share dark sexual fantasies, him first. Then tell him what you want. If it's erotic pain, tell him you've been a very bad girlfriend and need to be disciplined: spanked hard on the bare, rough anal (if that sounds appealing), being held down, maybe some bondage, rough nipple play. You get the idea. Help him live out his as well. If you want to chat further, friend me and ID yourself with this question.

[Asker]

hahaha OK, so this is confusing, but he said he only did all of that because it seemed like I was into it... I think I put him off by saying that because he hasn't done it since! he said he's not into anal or spanking really.. maybe light spanking. I have told him I like being held down and he's said that he likes it too.. so idk! he did leave bite marks on my nipple... It didn't even hurt. I know he's used handcuffs on a girl? but he didn't say too much about that.

[AustinMan]

It sounds like he's indeed a pervert but we don't know how much. Ask him what his favorite things are and his darkest sexual fantasies. Then tell him yours and live them out. Do you have fantasies about kinky sex? What are they?

[Asker]

hahaha a pervert? no way. not at all.

[AustinMan]

Pervert is a good thing in my book because I am one but not a dangerous one except maybe to my wife, who loves it. I hope you'll have a heart to heart with him about what you both want in bed and in the relationship

[Asker]

hmmm I guess I should probably ask him

[AustinMan]

What did he say?

[Asker]

oh I haven't asked yet lol

[AustinMan]

Well get with it, girlfriend!

[Asker]

wait, what am I asking? haha

[AustinMan]

What're his favorite fantasies and kinks?

[Asker]

ohhh right right. I'll probably get to that this weekend. haha. gotta have a right time and place for that.

[AustinMan]

Agreed. Somewhere away from the bedroom is always best to talk about sex. Takes the pressure off.

[Asker]

oh I was thinking in the bedroom would be better

[stubbsy]

tell him to pay for permenant hair removal otherwise don't bother, you can suffer from numerous infections by continuously shaving, so not worth it just to please him,x

[Asker]

hm. good plan. I'm at the point where I may just tell him that. I don't like not having ANY hair there. it's so immature looking. ick. it's growing back and it's not coming off again hahaha

[stubbsy]

A igree with you, and fair play, keep yourself happy and looking real,x

[Asker]

is it wrong to ask him to pay? I shaved today... and let the triangle grow back and bit and he was like "I have rug burn." I was like oh you are such a baby.

[dolfan13]

fully clean is the best for guys to go down on you and the landing strip is created with a trimmer.

[Asker]

he's finicky about every little hair! it's so impossible to get!