How long should it take to orgasm while on top?

[peace-love-couture]

How long should it take for the female to orgasm while she's on top? I understand there's no set amount of time, but what if it seems like forever? Like, say the girl gets on top while you lay on your back, she puts her legs on yours so they form an inverted triangle and she angles and holds herself up with her hands on your chest and starts out grinding slow and then gets fast or whatever. It feels good to the girl, but it feels like forever for her.

[selfishstars]

I don't think I really understand the question.

Every woman is different. Some women orgasm quite quickly, others take much longer, some are unable to orgasm at all. For an individual woman, it might vary depending on the type of stimulation, her mood, the position, etc.

When you say "it seems like forever", do you mean that it takes you longer to orgasm in that position than other positions? If so, it's probably just because it stimulates you differently. If you don't mind it taking a longer time, then it's not a big deal. If you'd prefer to orgasm more quickly, then consider switching to a different position or perhaps stimulating your clitoris as well. Also to consider, it may also seem like it takes longer simply because you're more aware of the time (because you're doing most of the work in that position and might start to become tired).

Personally, I find that the quickest way for me to reach orgasm is in missionary position (particularly if I squeeze my legs together with his on the outside). It takes me longer to orgasm in girl-on-top or standing positions (I think partly because I can't tense up my legs in the same way that I normally do before orgasming).

[Anonymous]

if it feels good you should't set a time limit on your orgasms. if you're worried about taking too long, I personally find that if the guy rubs my clit for me while I grind on him I climax a lot faster. but honestly I don't think guys usually would complain that sex is taking too long :P I'd be more worried that the guy couldn't last long enough. as far as being on top goes just watch the angle and your body position so that you don't bend his penis in a funky direction and he should be fine.

[TurbulentDan12]

I have heard before that depending on the guy's size being on top can actually be a bit uncomfortable for girls and because of that they won't be able to come at all. And the other thing to consider, is that if she is controlling the speed she may not be used to that either

But like any other position it's a trial and error process to see how good it feels for each party and what sort of speed, angle, etc. is best to get off.

Unfortunately I can't tell you if it's going to take 10 minutes or whatever, just that I have heard it usually takes longer.

[Anonymous]

I think it's got to do with a combination of your physiology and that of the guy you're with. I've been with a modest amount of women, and each of them had difficulty getting off in certain positions.

Anyway, if I'm picturing the position right, then it doesn't sound like there's much friction going on. If you're on top, he's likely fully penetrated you, and it that position, it doesn't sound like grinding is going to give your clit much action. So unless he's somehow rubbing against your G-spot, it's probably going to take you awhile to come.

[parkway]

If she is shaved it will take longer, skin on skin more friction in the wrong area no glide path. Then member size makes a difference.

If it seems like it is taking too long, then she is faking it.

You have a woman and don't know what to do with her, correct? Some people have all different types of problems. You know your penis goes inside her.

Good luck.

[peace-love-couture]

You didn't understand my question...

[Anonymous]

youre smart enough to know there are a million factors to it but...

if it seems like forever it 'probably should have' happened already.

little confused by your position explanation but assuming you're going regular cowgirl (on top facing him).?.

girl on top is usually good for giving him a break & just grinding up to a bigger/better orgasm unless he picks her up a little & still f***s her. if a girl was on top id expect her to get tired after 10-15 min so not all that long & probably not going to get her off with just that. if you're a champ and can really take over & ride it for your own pleasure you can probably get there in like 20mins, or less?

all just my opinion