How do women feel about swallow in oral sex?

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Girls/Women:This is actually more than one question. It bugs me a lot after I had this conversation with my girlfriend. Do you only engaged oral sex in a committed relationship? If you are dating two guys, would you have oral sex with them in the dating stage (not at the same time)? And would you swallow?Here's the situation, out of all my ex and female friends,(including my cousins), They told me they usually have sex before oral sex and don't swallow unless they are boyfriend and girlfriend. Since swallow is very intimate, and usually save for someone they really like. On the other hand, I just found out my girlfriend always swallow with all the guys she had oral sex. She said swallow is really just out of convenience and make the guy feel great. She had 7 sex partners before me. But she gave heads to 17 guys before, and swallow each time. It bugs me because I felt she accept me by swallow my liquid, but it's more like part of the routine for her. Don't get me wrong, she's a wonderful person, she really care about me and we are serious about each other. She's 24, and I am 28. She's a lot experience than me. Anyway, I just want to know if it's common for girls to swallow if the guys she was just dating and not in a relationship with. Maybe I was just naive to feel swallow should be saved for the special someone...

guilly18butnot · Accepted Answer

In my experience.

Many women do it (swallow) if the aftermath of the sex intercouse is steamy enough. Those who do in these terms, will usually stop doing it in long term relationships. These enjoy the act at the moment, but won't later.

Women who do it out of convenience won't care if they do it in long term relationships or not.

Women who don't like going down don't even like the word cum.

And some women enjoy the act as much as most men enjoy them swallowing. A minority, but a big minority in my experience. No matter it is a committed relationship or casual sex.

So for men who keep asking "do women really enjoy swallowing", let me tell you, some do, some don't, some will never, some will depending on the situation, and some are tired of your fucking question.

dnately · Accepted Answer

In my experience most girls who are willing to blow you to completion before you are in a serious relationship will also swallow, and it's just for convenience.

Some girls do not feel comfortable giving oral before the relationship is very serious, or will only engage in a bit of oral as foreplay but won't get you to come at all this way. These girls usually also feel that swallowing is a more intimate activity.

As with most anything else, it's a personal thing.

PonyCar · Accepted Answer

Virginity, saving oneself, etc are social constructs my friend. Don't let something that is essentially nothing (a social construct) leech joy out of your life- especially if you enjoy the relationship. It's pointless & inconsequential.

Just because she has done something for someone and also does it for you honestly doesn't mean jack. She may have done it for them out of convenience but for you because she likes you. I mean, does every person who receives a movie star's autograph feel jilted because that movie star has given a million autographs to a million people before them? No, of course not. They're just happy to have the autograph.

ChloeF · Accepted Answer

Realistically, oral sex is natural, especially if you're not yet committed but want to be intimate. Choosing to spit or swallow is your choice, but I wouldn't be going down on a man if I wasn't prepared to swallow his cum. That's really all there is to it. But, oral sex is just a form of sex, the level of intimacy denoted is purely personal (like whether you want to kiss on the lips, ha). If you really want tips, check out Jack's Blowjob Lessons; it will change the way you think about BJs forever (in a good way).

Betwyn · Accepted Answer

I almost always swallow... and I've blown more guys then I've had sex with... BJ's are easy... they're "party favours"

kaylaS91 · Answer

yes, I only hook up with (so engage in oral sex with) someone if we're in a relationship. I wouldn't date two guys at a time so... n/a.

zygi128 · Answer

I swallow for some and don't for others.  I have swallowed  for guys that were only BJ's never a relationship. I've had relationships that I never gave a BJ to. I really depends on the guy. . . . .

juniperyes · Answer

Swallowing is the easiest as no cleanup required and you can just walk back to whatever you were doing (be it a party or at work).
Once I gave BJ in a bathroom.
With vicinity of a sink helped, I immediately spitted.

I believe once a girl allows a guy to cum in mouth, she has done a major favor.
After that, swallowing or spitting shouldn't matter for the guy.

tinyclit · Answer

I'm a swallowing fan. I love cum and i swallow every time, but I myself would not swallow just any guy's cum. Even so, I totally disagree with you. I think you're being a dork about it.

chrissykerdock · Answer

it's easier to swallow and just socially the thing to do... I've blown boyfriends and party situations as well and I've always swallowed... it's only cum.

linds34 · Answer

17 is not that many.

1988fido · Answer

in my opinion swallowing is vert intimidate but a huge turn on.
in general if I like the girl and its not a random encounter like a 1 night stand , i like to give oral and even enjoy going down on her, the idea in general oral is somehow more intimate than regular vanila sex. and swallowing is maybe the highest level of intimacy a girl can give a guy (at least for me) as for men.. I dont even think of it , i won't mind swallowing what comes out of her if it happened.

madhatters4 · Answer

some girls swallow for every one they go down on. Some do it because it's easier/cleaner, some because they know it turns the guy on, some simply like swallowing.

You shouldn't offended that your girl has swallowed for other guys... you can't expect everyone to feel the same way you do about certain sexual acts

cahdee · Answer

I find most girls swallow. All of my girlfriends did. I guess you need to find one with fewer partners to feel special. I couldn’t be with a girl that had done that with so many guys.

shacodraco · Answer

So are you saying you have a penis?  Sorry just confused :/

NonchalantBro · Answer

wat

taster · Answer

Trespassing on your post...but tell me...what would you do with me if you enslaved me?

LexiPie · Answer

It's going in my mouth anyway, so why spit it out?

tin1998 · Answer

I swallow every time. I like swallowing.

chrismarie5589 · Answer

Some guys are interested in having their balls in a jar, considering your name? Anyways I would only sleep with my husband and swallow of course :)

Mikey805 · Answer

I love when a woman climaxes or squirts on me and I’ll swallow her sexy juice now maybe you friend just loves cum if you don’t like it don’t swallow it it’s not up to the guy what you do with his load