Around what age do girls begin feeling pleasure 'there'?

When I was a twelve year old boy, I used to rub my penis against my bed and feel pleasure in doing it. But I could not tell what that pleasure really was. At 14, I became aware of my sexuality, began masturbating and knew what that pleasure really was. I am just curious about what it is like for girls. When do they usually realize that touching or rubbing their vulva feels good? Does it vary greatly among girls or does it usually happen around a certain age? If any ladies here could share more on this, please.
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  • Extremely young, physically. It's not uncommon to see very young (4, 5, younger?) girls rubbing themselves against some hard object like when sitting on a pole, arm of a couch, or even someone's leg. It's natural not really sexual. You don't even realize what you're doing, so it probably really can't be considered masturbating. But your body responnds to touch in certain areas whether you want it to or not, and whether it's intentional or not.
    But as for intentional masturbation with the intent of... satisfaction, I would think most girls do that between 10 and 12 for the first time.
    My experience was much younger due to abuse so I can't really say for sure.

  • I think I read somewhere that these areas are pleasurable even for the newborns. But because in this age children don't try to discover their bodies and most parents don't talk about these things in front of their children and prevent them from touching themselves as they are still young so they don't know about it. However, the sexual maturity is completed in the age of puberty which is different depending on the gender and the person.

    As for me, I knew about my sexuality when I was 18.

  • It depends on the girl -- when her cycle's about to start and how developed she is. There's no fixed age. Many girls don't even think to try that until way, way after they've been having periods, etc. I know several girls who have never tried to find out at all, for reasons of their own.

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  • this must be the most important question ever asked !

    what ever would we do with out creepy questions.

    • the Internet just wouldn't be the same. Or as funny - there'd be no videos of older gentlemen using the internet for the first time and typing in something like 'stripping' so they could find out about wallpaper removal and then seeing a bunch of shirtless, bra-less females displaying themselves in a lewd fashion. And then being caught out by their wives and being all embarrassed.

    • @AnAwesomeDude98267 that's too funny!

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  • I matsurbate myself when I was in a music concert when I was 7, LOL!

    • Really? At 7? Hard to believe. But thanks for sharing.

    • Not sure if it's 7 but I was small. And don't get wrong that I'm insane or sth, I just don't even know what's matsurbate until I got to this website, and I wasn't really matsurbate too, I was just feeling good ' there'

  • I would rub my clit while spreading my legs occasionally in my bed at night when I was around 10. I had absolutely no idea what was happening I just remember it felt good, so I kept doing it. It wasn't until maybe 13 when I learned about sexuality and I understood

  • You can feel pleasure there at any age. Toddler s can feel pleasure. When I was a little girl I would scoot to the edge of a chair and spread my legs(to put pressure on my clit ) I had no idea why it felt good but it did. It wasn't until I was 14 that I started masturbating because I was horny. Then I knew what I was doing and understood why

    • As far as toddler boys are concerned I don't think the penis gives them that sort of pleasure at that age. I am profoundly surprised to know that little girls can feel pleasure in the vagina, but of course they wouldn't know what it is. Still, I never thought that was possible at a very young age.

    • It is. I'm not sure about boys though because I am not a boy

    • It's the same for guys as well. However, most boys don't understand why it feels good to rub your penis either with your hand or against something until they get 'the talk'. What they DO realize is that 'sometimes their (my) bits (penis) goes all hard and it feels strange. Wonder what happens if I touch it? Oh, that felt weird, good, but weird. Let's Carry On!'

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  • I started touching myself when I was too young to even remember my age. I didn't know what the hell it was, I just knew it felt good.

  • I was raped at 12. It didn't feel good. Don't remember before that. Sex is never enjoyable. even when it is physically it isn't psychologically or emotionally.

    • No one enjoys being raped. Not even a p*rnstar would.

    • Hi I am 27 virgin man. I kept away from sex.. because religion and culture told me to do it only after marriage. I like it that way too since it feels special to have the most personal pleasure with the special someone. However i was not a lucky guy to have girl friends and now i am confused about sexuality love and human attraction. I have been so patient i feel sexually shut down too... hence i feel i may be able to share comon feeling with a rape victim.. since i am afraid of sexuality now after seeing so much hurt ib this world... Could i have a conversation with you later?

    • I'm sorry. I kinda relate. I was molested many many times at the ages of six to nine. That includes penetration but, thankfully, Nothing more than fingers. I guess it was assumed that because my body responded, pleasurable & bodily fluids I guess I should say, both persons fault it was a good thing I guess. Men are ignorant in that respect I guess. Rape or molestation are never good things. I hope you got to see a counselor and I hope things turn out okay for you. I never saw a counselor for that and to this day my dad does not even know about it. Last year was the first time I ever told him that I don't. I had gone in for counseling for other problems that I was having and I confided in this counselor about it. He told me he had to report it but eventually I convinced him not to. Begged him. If my dad ever found out I am sure he would kill both of these people. I lost my mother and I don't want to lose my dad so I keep my mouth shut. I'm 14 now and I'm mostly over it. Mostly.