How to get your boyfriend to tie you up during sex?

I have a fantasy of being tied up during sex. My boyfriend is definitely not the adventurous type but last night we got talking about p*rn for some reason and finally I told him I wanted to be tied up. He laughed and said we could try it sometime. Talking about it and actually doing it are 2 different things so how can I get him to actually go ahead and tie me up while being suggestive? Also for fun what kind of fantasies do you have? :)
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Go buy some ropes. He can't say no then. Play around with them. - Lets hope he doesn't tie you up and walk out of the room.

    My fantasy is to have a guy come on my stomach and lick it off. Fantasy - has been COMPLETED.

    It was VERY hot and it turned me on more than I thought it would.

    • Congrats on getting your fantasy completed lol:)

    • Haha, thanks. I hope your boyfriend fulfills it. Perhaps, compromise? Is he dominant? That may come into play.

Most Helpful Guys

  • just talk about it see what he thinks. get some handcuffs/ropes and have them 'accidentally' on your bed next time & see what he does/thinks

  • Just tell him that you really want to be tied up and have sex like that. I wouldn't say no to that.

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  • If he's at all into it, he'd be bringing up what to tie you up with, where ... when ... etc.

  • Talking to him is the first step. Telling him you're serious and want to try it, is the way to go.

    Next step? Buy some of the tools you need, silk scarves or hand cuffs.

  • Just ask. Or defy him about something and make him "angry" enough, then challenge him to punish you. Alternatively, watch p*rn together and show him your "favourites" of what turns you on. He should get the hint.

    Otherwise, simply tie him up. He should pay back in kind.

    PS: I do agree that boys of your age sometimes might need time to grow more confident about sex... sometimes not.