My new boyfriend says he wants to bend me over

[Anonymous]

He always says he wants to do this...Why would a guy want to do this so bad? Is this a position of power?

[iAmAWESOME18]

I a lot of cases it is because he can pull your hair. However you can make any position a position of power except for cowgirl. If it makes you uncomfortable tell him. It could also be just the from-behind-view. But if this is a constant thing tell him he needs to get a little more versatile!

[Mikishti]

I agree with most of the men's comments. I don't know if I'd enjoy it, but hey, never tried it. And I certainly can't knock it until I do so.

[Anonymous]

Yes, its a position of power...and you are in a very submissive position, which makes him feel stronger, and more in control. Its how the animals do it. Its less intamate ..but generally he can get much deeper inside you.

[AustinMan]

Quite possibly he just likes the look of your booty and wants to see it prominently. It's also about dominance. Do you want a guy who will dominate sexually? I'm talking about taking charge in bed by not other places.

[HandsomeRaj]

Whether he realizes it or not yes it is a position of power just like doggy style is too

But he may see it as plainly liking it that way and not realize anything about the power part :)

[kheserthorpe]

wait, are we dating?

Uh, seriously? its dominant and also works well, mechanically, and most guys like the view.

[Asker]

no we're not dating

[kambo_trick3y]

Do it for him and you'll quickly get your answer.

[normalice]

power is nearly correct, but I think it's more of an "aggression" thing. The mentality of 'bending you over' is along the lines of "hold still while I have my way with you." Some girls get off on it, some don't.

[Anonymous]

It feels hot to dominate. And see a nice view of there ass helps you come better.