Guys, how do you feel dating a girl whose ex was significantly bigger than you? How about if he is richer?

[Anonymous]

Was just having lunch with some mates of mine, we got talking on a common friend of ours who is rather hesitant to go after a girl because her ex was this filthy rich bloke (Think has a 10 room house, 2 Ferraris and a yacht type) and she got dotted on a lot by her think along the lines of her 21st birthday he bought her a BMW M3 and a IWC watch. Broke up because she caught him cheating. I thought what a silly fellow. Then we got on talking the kind of girls we won't date after if her ex was of certain characteristic, one guy started going on about how he won't date a girl if her ex has a significantly bigger penis than him, somewhat surprised us that he brought it up. I tried to tell him it was okay most girls don't care about it but he was adamant that it wasn't the case. Myself the only one I won't want to is if she is known to date someone with a STI or he had left her pregnant. How about you guys? How do you feel about dating a girl who has a very wealthy ex-boyfriend? Wealthy here is the 1% of society or if you're a wealthy one then he has 50-100% more than you. What about if her ex has a penis that is much bigger than yours? Let's say for argument sake he is 30% longer and 50% thicker than you. On top of that they had a very active sex life too (think 2-3x per day type) What would it be guy?

[G_GTom]

Your friend is right, women do care. I would say it's a deal breaker for 15% of women, but that doesn't mean the rest don't care.

And I would never date a woman who preferred a big penis. Why would I when there are much better women out there?

I can speak from experience that women do not like to be asked this question. It puts them in the situation where they are judging you ( something they don't feel they do ) as unfavorable compared to their ex, which you are if she prefers a big penis and you don't have one.

A lot of women will avoid the question or engage in diplomatic dishonesty, which may seem odd to people since women claim they want honesty, so let me clarify that. Women want honesty when you are speaking to them, not the other way around.

[MrOracle]

You have to ask yourself this:

If a guy's money is that important to her, why is she talking to ME when she knows I don't have much? And the answer is obviously that, while she certainly wasn't against money or nice gifts if someone can afford them, what ultimately mattered to her was that her guy respected her and treated her well. Clearly the rich guy didn't, but maybe you can.

If money matters to a girl, once she knows you don't have any, she'll be long gone, so you won't have to do any guessing. Since that didn't happen in this case, it isn't an issue for her.

And who gives a F about penis size? If it's that important to her, again, she'll be gone. If she stays around, then she's like most women: the GUY is what is important, not his penis size.

[RedSmartie]

I think a girl wouldn't really care about the size of his penis. It takes more than a large appendage to be good in bed.

As for your friend's particular case, I don't think the girl would be too keen to date a wealthy guy after the last one cheated on her. She will probably think they are all like that. He probably has a greater shot now than he had before she dated the rich guy.

[G_GTom]

I think you need to read more comments from the female members of this forum.

[peace-love-couture]

"What about if her ex has a penis that is much bigger than yours? Let's say for argument sake he is 30% longer and 50% thicker than you. On top of that they had a very active sex life too (think 2-3x per day type) "

What type of pathetic ass boy asks his girl about her ex boyfriends penis size

A guy who asks needs to be dumped. Calculations and sh*t. He deserves to be dumped

[Asker]

What about a girl who tells?

[xyhic]

I try to avoid women who date losers because lets face it if she's dating one than that makes her...

[ben890]

Dude I don't give a crap about her ex.

I assume that, because she's not with him anymore, they had some sort of problem that made them unhappy.

I assume that, because she's with me now, she likes me more than she now likes him.

What's the problem?

[THE_Godfather]

I know a girl like that. She was with "ugly fat guy" with very deep pockets. She asked for a car & he bought her one.

Fast forward to today she's happier with a guy that has a 2 bedroom golf villa. Love trumps all?

[antonlikesmlb]

If she has no problem being with a poorer guy then I don't care either. I'll make own YouTube money soon enough. I wouldn't ever ask about her ex's d*** size or how often they did it but once again, if she doesn't care then I don't either cause it's her that's supposedly missing out on more.

[boomshakalaka]

If it was me in that situation, I'd handle it like a real gent. I'd be like "Cool I'm glad that she's doing great" then move on with my life.

[Moloch]

I don't care as long as she's comfortable enough to be middle-class with me and is more than happy with me being smaller than him.

[Anonymous]

it sucks bad when you girlfriend's ex had a bigger penis then you...she will bring it up from time to time making you feel inadequate...