Sexy videos/pictures for my boyfriend!!

[Anonymous]

So, this is pretty straightforward. And I am quite aware of the dangers of pictures & videos being shared. BUT. The major difference is that 1. My boyfriend does not have a phone. The pictures and videos will all be on this phone that cannot be used to text or call anyone, we will literally just use it for these pictures. He keeps it hidden under his mattress (lol) & 2. He wouldn't share these with anyone, and he's a great guy. & the fact that there's basically no possible way for him to share these with anyone. Anyways, I already asked him for instructions on what I should do, which are helpful. But I can't help but feel like I'm going to look stupid ://I would reeaallly like some suggestions from guys, like what YOU would want to see. And girls, stuff that you may have done! I need some ideas! I have a full length mirror in my room, and a few of his t shirts, maybe I could use them? GAH. I'm just not someone who's good with improvising. I really like having detailed! And frankly, his are just suggestions. I need a step by step what should I do! ALSO, I kind of have a deadline of tonight to get them all on the phone so that he can have them by tomorrow! Thank you!

[xandra_smiles]

Probably not what you would like to hear, but I think that you shouldn't force anything. First of all if you are questioning whether these pictures will get around, there is a problem. Second of all you should feel like yourself, completely comfortable when you take pictures or videos like that. Take baby steps. I advise if you chose to do this tonight. Take one picture, relatively modest. This is because one you can ease into this, two keeps him wanting more. I thought about doing this once with my now ex boyfriend, we dated for a year and a half, but let me tell you, I am so glad I didn't. Not because I didn't want the pictures to go around, but because I would have hated him to have those after we broke up. It is a very intimate and trusting thing to do in this regard.

If you are going to do this one of my friends took picture looking over her shoulder in her underwear, but at every angle it looked like you were going to see something. Very classy, wear heels.

[Distant]

What about using the USB cord to upload the pictures to his computer? lol. That's what I did with all the nudes girls have sent me over the years. Every guy is different. You should know your boyfriend well enough to know what type of pictures he would like. We can't tell you that. Unless you're talking about how to set-up and take the photos properly which I have no interest in.