Why would a girl lie about being a virgin?

[Anonymous]

I told my male friends I´m a virgin (I´m 24) and they all laughed in my face and told me I´m too hot to be a virgin. They also said that I shouldn't say that anymore, because even though guys like it, it´s not cool to lie. I didn't tell them anything and simply changed the subject, but I wasn't lying. I am a virgin. I never did anything sexual with a guy because it never felt right and I´m waiting for someone I really like and all that story... Why would a girl lie about being a virgin? It´s not that I hate being a virgin, but it´s not something I´m particularly proud of (I wish I could be like some girls who have sex without caring if they love the guy). Besides, there are a lot of questions in here from girls who are extremely sad about being virgins. So why would a girl say something like this if it´s not true? Why didn't they believe me? if it´s true that experienced girls are more attractive, why would a girl lie about being a virgin to turn guys on? It makes no sense...

[udolipixie]

Why would a girl lie about being a virgin?

Likely to improve her status as it seems most guys want a virgin often due to male ego regarding females as property and most guys judge a gal by her sexual history using with double standards for their own.

Why didn´t they believe me?

Bit unsure why you're asking this question as they told you why they didn't believe you recall:

they all laughed in my face and told me I´m too hot to be a virgin.

[Asker]

Yeah, I know they told, but it makes no sense at all. Imagine if all the attractive people in the world were sexually active and the ugly people were virgins. It makes no sense. How we look has nothing to do with the sex with have.

[udolipixie]

@QA Perhaps it'd make more sense to you if you looked at it from a common male perspective. You're a girl so you can very easily get sex. You're a hot girl so you can very very very very (x10) easily get sex. They're likely not thinking if you have sexual/religious/spiritual/emotional reasons just in terms of it's easy for you to get sex thus you must have had sex. Bit unfair to me to think guys can make sense when it comes to sex especially female sexuality

[Asker]

Yeah, that is a good way to look at it. They asume that just because I can get sex whenever I want, I must be having sex all the time (because that is what most guys would do). Thank you!

[Anonymous]

"The grass is always greener..." Some virgins want the experience, and some experienced girls regret certain things.

I think they're thinking you were lying to make yourself seem more appealing to men. They probably assume that you've had guys come after you in the past and therefore wouldn't say no.

[Tripz]

There is nothing wrong with it, they we're being pretty rude actually.

and some girls think guys prefer virgins, uncharted lands so to speak, though some guys do want virgins, most want experienced girls

[Konnour]

Because plenty of guys prefer virgins?

And there aren't any very reliable ways to know for sure is she lying or not so it's all on her conscience.

[parkway]

You have experienced a nasty woman who wants to bring you down to her level, a tramp. Most men don't want a woman who has screwed everything with a stick.

[Nicholas1326]

I'd rather think that a girl who talks frequently about sex and their sexual escapades... is secretly still a virgin. Like that American Beauty movie from 1999, the story twist is that she reveals she's a version despite being all flirty and "easy-like" for half of the film with Spacey's character.

So it makes you wonder, how many do lie about being sexually active to impress, rather than how many women lie about being virgins.

I bet most women become sluts because they either regret their first time, or they're so perfectionist no man could ever satisfy them, so they cover-up that they're still a version.

I know i am still. Ha :P

[Anonymous]

hiding her past

[Anonymous]

desperate

[Anonymous]

well girls can easily get sex