Guys...Naked Pictures? Cellulite?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys, So I'm 23, fairly attractive, and a really thin girl (5'6, 110lbs)...always have been. It's a curse of high metabolism so don't start pointing to anorexia and BMI and whatnot. I just can't seem to gain weight. However, as most of you know, cellulite doesn't discriminate. Despite being tiny and active, I've developed the tiniest bit on the bottom of my bum and it drives me crazy although it's barely noticeable. Anyway, when I was getting ready for a formal event today I took a risque picture of myself in my garter belt and sent it to this guy I currently have a thing with. He enthusiastically responded saying he wanted a picture of my bum, so I snapped a quick one and sent it before I left. Now, I know it could just be me being self conscious but he didn't seem as excited as I expected after I sent it, all he said was "Are you trying to turn me on?" and when I coyly responded that I would never do such a thing, I was just trying to cheer him up, all he said was "Oh I see". I know he likes my bum quite a bit and after 10 years of being 'well acquainted with it' ha ha he still always compliments me on it, but that's why I find his response so strange this time. As for the picture itself, you can't even see the cellulite in it, it just looks like a shadow or a tiny scar or something, but I'm very upset and can't help feeling hurt by his response. Is it so much to ask for a 'DAYUM'? Haha. I mean, I realize I sound a little conceited here but my ass has a great shape and is very perky aside from that one small imperfection...so my question is... If a girl sent you some pretty hot risque pictures of herself in a garter belt, and had a great ass, would you still nitpick over something small like that? Or would you just be excited that you're getting risque pictures lol?

[Anonymous]

I didn't read all of this.

There is this psychological game where guys put down gals by saying something derogatory about their bodies to LOWER the girls SELF ESTEEM.

The guys figure the lower the girls self esteem is the more power he as over her to get her to do any sex act he wants. It's a manipulation.

DUMP this guy, he doesn't CARE for you at all.

You deserve something better.

[improve]

why some disliked you? you 've probably wrote about about them in your message! dirty pigs

[lugboltladdy]

I must be missing something here. How does "Are you trying to turn me on?" = nitpicking?

Because when I use those same words it means, "are you trying to get me in trouble sporting a raging hard-on at work?"

When you say you're trying to "cheer him up", it sounds like you think he's depressed- maybe he didn't know what to think of that?

My guess is, he loved that picture :)

[Joshbgosh]

Any chance he was just bummed (pun not intended lol) out that you said you weren't trying to turn him on? Like maybe he misunderstood you?

Also, I don't mean to lecture, but just be careful who you send pics to.

And to answer your question: personally, I am an ass man, so if a girl has a nicely shaped bubble butt, I'd be more than happy about seeing it lol.

[indian_empress_91]

yea I think this too , plus I like a guy with a sexy ass hehe

[dnately]

I can't imagine any guy even noticing the cellulite in the situation that you describe.

You are worrying too much, I'm sure your bum is lovely.

[TwiztedTD]

Any girl can send me any hot risque pic of herself, and I'd never say anything negative!

You sound hot, and he should be so lucky you sent him pics!

[Anonymous]

if I get hot risque pictures like that... doesn't matter at all with something so small a flaw (or whatever).. if someone is well acquainted with it for that long... he might be flooded with the old memories... seeing it again... I say.. its cool.. maybe you are just doing too much of thinking... you have a great ass... so don't think that much.. :) take care

[Anonymous]

Just ask him straight up if the pics are getting him hard. If the answer is yes, then you're fine. Just make sure you promise him you'll take care of that as soon as you see him!