My girlfriend is a virgin and my penis won't fit inside at all, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

We have had the sex talk and we are doing it. As we are committed to each other and in love we want to make this happen. When I was much younger I was with a virgin, but she masturbated and her vagina was somewhat loose so it worked. Now I am with a virgin who has done very little masturbating and her vagina cannot even fit half of my pinky finger what do I do? I don't want to hurt her too much, but as my penis is 7 inches and really thick I can see this being a problem. Suggestions?

[Jennifer2048]

Get her really aroused and lubricated. Spend a lot of time building her up with oral, gentle finger rubbing of her lips and opening (not necessarily inside). She will swell somewhat with arousal. Add extra lubrication and go a little at a time. If she is OK with it, work with her over time with a small vibrator or dildo. I think if you care and spend the time, the outcome will be great for you both.

[rougecerise]

Warm her up...maybe try fingers, then toys, and then your penis?

If she's really into it and ready (so LOTS of foreplay), it will get easier. You can't just shove anything in there and expect it to fit. It doesn't work that way.

So, massage her, get her to relax, turn her on, and ease her into it!

Good Luck!

[Anonymous]

Stretch her out over time with your fingers. After a week or two, you'll fit. I had the exact same problem with my boyfriend. He's thick and I was super tight.

[Anonymous]

I suggest a shower then have sex with her against the wall (if you can have a chair at the side that she can rest her foot on to open up her legs and make entry easier). Also allot of foreplay. ALLOT.

[onlyaguy]

Help her have an orgasm first, which relaxes the muscles. It's a good thing to do even if fit is not a problem! ;)

[bubbiexo]

Lubrication and work up to it. Little by little..