I'm generally mistaken for shy, because I'm introverted. My girlfriend came four times last night (once through oral, thrice during penetration). I'm not saying I'm "good" in bed, but I do pay attention to my lover's needs.
In general, I think that a person's personality CAN be reflected in their performance in bed. One previous girlfriend of mine was sort of boring. She never really wanted to go anywhere and do anything "exciting", basically just not the type to experiment with anything new. That translated into the bedroom. She always wanted to do the same thing (she was sort of a pillow princess), never wanted to experiment. So yeah, boring.
My current girlfriend has a very adventurous personality. She likes to go new places, try new things, and that translates into the bedroom too. We've tried new stuff together that before, both of us had only ever seen in p*rn. Her ex of numerous years was much like mine, never wanted to do anything new, sex was always the same and always about him. But he too, was very selfish in other areas of their life. So yeah, I given what I've seen, I think that the way a person treats other people outside of the bedroom is how they're going to treat them in it.
But you can't really make that determination just by looking at someone. Someone might appear to be outgoing, but that could be compensation for insecurities. Someone might appear to be shy, but could be up for trying anything with the right person. You've got to get to know someone a bit before you can really get an idea of how they're going to be in bed.
The excitement in a bedroom depends on the chemistry between the two people, if you have a lack of it, then the bedroom will become somewhere you don't really want to go with this person, but if the chemistry is right, then sex will turn out to be awesome,x
I don't agee, because I had once very shy boyfriend, he was shy to talk to new people, and rather quiet type.. but in bed he was like completely different person, really , nobody of his friends would believe it
Sounds like me :P
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Im a shy guy, and I don't think I'm bad in bed. I am very adventurous in bed, and kind of dominant.
two brain in male head one in head another in d*** head. if his brain is in d*** head then he do every possible mistake in bed, if his brain in his head he knows perfectly how to use his cock.
Nope...
Define badbin bed...
I personally think they are bad in bed, sorry
I'm a shy guy, I wouldn't say that I'm good in bed persé, but I've made girls scream, squirm, tremble and have multiple orgasms. I certainly know how to please a girl...
I think you need to stop listening to your friends.
I think you need to read the question once more.
i read it fine. all this depends on the individual. being shy does NOT mean they will be bad in bed...
I do think you are right!
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