Embarrassing bikini blooper on first date.

[Anonymous]

I met a nice cute guy at a friends party about 3 weeks ago. We have been talking and hanging out with our friends a lot and he asked me to go to a water park this past weekend. He and I went together alone for the first time. Things were going very well we were having a good time flirting and had a few drinks. We rode a few slides and then got into the lazy river. I made a bad choice by wearing a tube top bikini to a water park. I did not have any problems on the slide but I did have an accident in the lazy river. I was swimming underwater I put my hands straight up above me and I jumped up through the center of the inner tube we were using to float on and landed on top of jake just to be flirty. (It was one of those two person tubes) when I jumped the Force of the water and Squeezing through the tube pulled my top down to my belly button. my bare boobs were basically pressed up against his stomach when I landed on him. I was so embarrassed I jumped back up Immediately exposing my boobs so I could grab my top. There was another couple that were right behind us that saw everything and were laughing. I was blushing My face turned all red And I just wanted to die. Jake made a comment to me that he liked my Pierced nipple And that I have big boobs which did not help my embarrassment at all. In fact I thought it was a little Inappropriate. The rest of the day went good Even though I was still embarrassed and a little more shy after that happened. I ended up giving him a short little kiss on the lips When the day was over. I did not get a chance to talk to him yesterday because I had to work late I want to call him today but I don't even want to really talk to him because I'm still embarrassed. Do you think I should Call him or just wait to he calls me.

[EverythingReal]

I think he mentioned the pierced nipple to lighten the mood. Embarrassing things like this happen to me all the time. After a while you realize that they don't really matter, they are only a big deal if you turn it into a big deal. The best thing to do is to brush it off, laugh it off or pretend like it didn't happen. I'd call him. So he saw your boobs, so what, if it turned into a relationship, it was bound to happen at some point. Now you don't have to be self conscious on your boobs, he's already seen them. Call him up, ask him if he wants to go to dinner or something.

[ArthurStew232]

Great answer :) as a guy I'd agree that he's probably tried to lighten the mood... and I agree that if you liked him then you'd probably show him your boobs at some point too! @EverythingReal you said stuff like that happens to you all the time? Whats happened to you?

[Betwyn]

You have a nipple piercing.. but are shy about him seeing it?

I don't get it.. piercings and tattoo's are meant to be seen.. to be enjoyed...

and really, how is showing a guy your breasts by accident ever going to be bad to him?

I understand that you are embarrassed and flustered...

but you have nothing to worry about...

Call him... set up another date...

He is probably sh*tting bricks thinking you want nothing to do with him now...

[Asker]

It's not that I didn't want him to see it eventually. But It was only like our third time ever hanging out together in those three weeks. That's why I was so embarrassed and because it was unexpected. I knew if we got together he would eventually see it

[taster]

I don't like nipple piercings & tattoos...eh...may as well as see the damn things now as later...):

[rotinaj10]

I was thinking the same thing about the piercing. Tube top at a water park was a bad choice for modesty.

[caligirl3]

well you like each other so he would see your boobs sooner or later anyway

[snowboarder720]

that was a bit of a bad move on his part to say something about your boobs. Seriously, he should understand your thoughts and how you felt, saying some rude remark is a bit uncalled for and could be offensive. However, I bet he was just as much in shock as you were.

I think it's best to just move on. Forget about it, don't appologize or anything. Act like it was an accident that happened and will be forgotten about.

[MrOracle]

This is just NOT the kind of thing that's EVER going to bother a guy.

I'm sure he might have been a bit uncomfortable because he knows YOU were embarrassed, and he didn't want you to be, so he tried to make light of the situation so that you wouldn't feel bad about it, but the only part that bothered HIM was YOUR discomfort, not the situation itself.

Naked boobs are almost never a bad thing.

[rotinaj10]

” Naked boobs are almost never a bad thing.” Truer words have never been spoken. Lol

[NikkiBabyOo]

I don’t wear strapless bikini tops anymore for that exact reason. One time I was talking to this group of boys I knew and my friend snuck up behind me and pulled my top down to my waist so all the boys there saw my boobs bounce out. It was totally humiliating, but I got her back later by pulling down her bottoms in front of them lol

[ArthurStew232]

Ouch, that must have been embarrassing for you, but... Not gonna lie I wish I knew you and your friends when I was a teenager haha... would have loved to have seen that.

[NikkiBabyOo]

@ArthurStew232 it was humiliating but I got her way worse. She had her back to us and bent over to get something out of the cooler and I waved to the boys and then I grabbed her bottoms with both hands and pulled them straight down to her ankles as hard as I could. So they both saw her bare white butt while she was bent all the way over ahahaha, paybacks a bitch 🤣

[ArthurStew232]

Woah that's good payback haha. Was she expecting it do you think? Damn though, if she was bending over it must have been pretty embarrassing for her (and probably a good view for the guys). When she exposed your boobs did many people see? and did you manage to cover in time? Either way I bet the guys all loved you haha

[NikkiBabyOo]

@ArthurStew232 she definitely wasn’t expecting it ahahaha. I was mad at her so I wanted it to be as worse as possible for her so I waited till she was bending over to pants her so everyone would see her vagina too. And it worked 🤣. When she yanked my top down no I didn’t cover up in time, so like 5 people all saw my boobs bounce out. And they would always dare us to prank each other just so they could see us naked, one time they dared me to take her bikini all the way off and throw it in the ocean so she’d have to go home naked. I didn’t do it because I thought it would be going too far but maybe one day 🤣

[Booya270]

Oh Nikki ever dared her to pants a guy or she dared u too?

[Booya270]

@nikkibabyooNikkiBabyOo have u ever dared her to prank a guy then or she dare u too?

[NikkiBabyOo]

@Booya270 the boys there dared us to one time, I chickened out because I thought it sounded too mean but she was really ghetto and wild so she did it. There was a rumor one of their friends was tiny down there and he always wore underwear under his bathing suit because he was nervous about it. So they dared her to pull them down in front of everyone and expose it, none of them would have done it but they knew she was crazy enough, she barely even knew him. There were a ton of people there that day. Anyway he got out of the water and she walked around behind him and then she grabbed the sides of his swim trunks enough to catch his underwear too and then she pulled everything completely down and exposed his little dick in front of everyone. He just got out of the water so it was SO little lol, he got really embarrassed and pulled his underwear up and she was just laughing hysterically behind him being so mean about it. A bunch of people were giggling about it and he was sooo embarrassed lol, like 20 girls saw him fully naked and there was nothing he could do about it. She was so crazy for doing that, like everyone was scared of her after

[Booya270]

Oh wow yeah I ne rver one qas acared pf her after that did u make fun of yhe poor guy too

[ArthurStew232]

Wow sounds like you really got her back then. It was lucky for her that noone was in front of her at the time! Was she mad at you for pantsing her? Do you still know her now then? What would you do nowadays? Also, out of interest do you think its more embarrassing for your butt to be exposed or your boobs? Ouch though, must have been humiliating for 5 guys to see your naked boobs... I get the feeling from your posts that you might have liked it maybe? (Correct me if I'm wrong) That might have been too far completely stripping her like that :O 😮

[ArthurStew232]

Oh shitttt! That must have been hilarious to see... poor guy though haha

[ArthurStew232]

@Booya270 I wouldn't have wanted to be on that beach with her at that time haha... must have been so embarrassing for that being, but probably pretty funny for the girls though. Have you ever pantsed someone? Or been pantsed?

[Booya270]

@ArthurStew232 lol right poor little guy A d fore me yeah I habe tho im ki da odd bec im in to it tho it is really Embarrassing 😳

[ArthurStew232]

@Booya270 I know what you mean, I don't think it's super odd tbh... I've been pantsed myself and tho it is super embarrassing I also kinda found it exciting... What was the worst time you were pantsed? and did you ever see a girl get pantsed too?

[NikkiBabyOo]

@ArthurStew232 she wasn’t mad, just really embarrassed because of the way it happened. And I’d say getting your boobs exposed is way more embarrassing than your butt, but getting your vagina exposed is ten times worse than that and you can’t really pull someone’s bottoms down without exposing everything so I think yanking someones top off is taking it less far. Yes I still know her but we don’t hangout like we used to, this was all like ten years ago, but since we used to love embarrassing each other so much I’m sure if we went swimming again at some point she’d be trying to get my bikini to come off in front of everyone. I can promise her bottoms would be coming down the second she has her back to me 🤣. And I agree it would be going too far but stripping her totally naked would be the funniest thing everrr

[NikkiBabyOo]

@ArthurStew232 it was hilarious to see when she pantsed him but the second everything came down and we all looked I felt bad for him right away, like it would be funny if it was just smaller but it was sooo tiny and it was in front of so many girls that she completely ruined his chances with everyone there and he knew it right away. I bet he wishes he tied his trunks a little tighter that day 🤣

[ArthurStew232]

I bet haha, she probably didn't have time to be mad when she was standing there bottomless with her butt facing everyone. Ngl you picked a good time to pants her when she was bending over. I get what you mean yeah.. As a guy there's only one major body part for us to cover but you girls are spoilt for choice... which I guess makes it easy if you're trying to humiliate your friend? When you pantsed her was anyone in front of her? Hahah good to know you'd still be on the defensive if you saw her again :P And I agree it'd be too far but it would DEFINITELY be funny too... I think I speak for most guys when I say I wouldn't mind seeing that.

[ArthurStew232]

@nikkibabyoo Also, yeah I bet that was pretty funny to see - I can't imagine how embarrassing that must have been for the "little" guy lol. Especially in front of all those other girls too... I've been fully pantsed before in front of people, and I can vouch that it's embarrassing, but luckily for me I've always been average size (or at least comfortable with my size). Can I ask, Is it more funny for you as a girl if you see a guy pantsed and he's tiny down there? (It seems to be a running theme on this site) Also, how did you feel when you had your top pulled down? and how did you feel when you pulled ddown your friend's bottoms? (gimme a DM if you want)

[ArthurStew232]

@Booya270 Hey gimme a message if you want! you too @nikkibabyoo

[NikkiBabyOo]

@ArthurStew232 oh I mean if a guy gets pantsed and he’s tiny down there he better pray that he covers up before any girls see it. That’s like the most embarrassing turn off ever and there’s no coming back from it, once we see it we can never look at you the same. So she basically ruined his chances with everyone when she did that. It’s hard not to laugh. And when she pulled my top down I just felt shocked at first and then really exposed. When I was sneaking up on her to pull her bottoms down it felt so bad like in a good way that I knew she was about to be humiliated worse than me. If I went swimming with her again I already know what I’d do. I’d sneak up behind her and yank the strings on her bottoms untied and then snatch them off of her and run so she’d have to chase me with her big white butt bouncing around in front of everyone, she’d be sooo mad ahahaha. I’d throw her bottoms in a tree and while she was reaching for them I’d yank her top off too and leave her standing there butt naaaaked ahahahaha she’d never be able to top it

[parkway]

What is the big deal. I don't think most people care.

He may not call because you may be embarrassed. Call him.

[martyfellow]

Lol, don't worry too much about this, and don't blame him; he couldn't very well pretend he didn't see you, and the pierced nipple does get one's attenton, you know.

Are ou otherwise attracted to him? That's the only thing you have to think about here.

[imonfire]

This is probably a good thing in the long wrong. It's funny, you can bot laugh about it, it cuts down on the sexual tension... why worry?

[Brando]

Well I guess you now have to set yourself on fire because of this :(

[Asker]

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[onlyaguy]

I agree, just give him a call and act as if nothing happened. It was far less of a big deal to him than you. If you like him, give him a call.

[ArthurStew232]

Although it must have been embarrassing for you to have your boobs pop out and be totally exposed to your crush/date, from what you've said it sounds like the date went well... I'd try not to dwell on it.. you'll probably laugh about it in a few months.

Just from a guys perspective though, I'm pretty sure he was thinking about your boobs for the rest of the week haha.

[Anonymous]

No "big" deal. Just relax and he will call you

[Anonymous]

Okay, first off--how big are we talking boobwise? Sounds like you have a very nice pair, which I'm SURE wasn't lost on your guy when they were naked and pressed up against him or when he had the chance to ogle them a bit.

Not a worry--if anything you helped your cause because he liked what he saw and will want to get to know you better so he can see them again in private.

[Anonymous]

I'd say call him. Just act like nothing happened and it wasn't a big deal anyway so just go about how you normally do :)