Do you find this to be true about penis size arguments?

[WoIIie]

I've found that these arguments have two distinct sides that fuel the fire. On one side you have men who are upset and handle their emotions in a passive manner (IE, I'm not big enough *sadface*) On the other side you have girls who are upset and handle their emotions in an assertive manner (IE, he's not big enough *smugface*) Both sides are generally unsatisfied with themselves but have different ways of handling it. For the guy, if he's not scoring girls then he looks at himself as the problem. For the girl, if she's not attracting the guys she thinks she's capable of attracting, she blames guy for not being good enough. It's a perfect match. The insecure guys who are always seeking justification as to why they are in such a scoreless a rut, have these insecure girls who salivate at the thought of cutting them down. Then you have those who tell the honest truth (which happens to be the majority opinion) that size doesn't matter as much as technique, and that size is generally not a deal breaker if you love each others' personalities (of course there are exceptions but we're talking majority opinion here). For some reason, that does not register in the discussion. The insecure guys go nuts over this response because it doesn't confirm their beliefs, while the insecure girls try to cover it up by chiming in their two undesired cents about how great big ones are (and putting zero emphasis on the fact that they might have a big vagina). Did I get that right? Is that really what every penis argument is all about? What do you think?

[cavmanier]

The does size matter question is just obvious. It's like asking do you care AT ALL,even one millionth of a percentage, how big your house is? Like house sizes there will probably be a preference 99.999% of the time, or more. Some women may like smaller dicKs, or houses, while some prefer a larger house or dicK. The majority of women probably like an average dicK the best. If women really want huge dicKs, which pop culture will tell you, man would have likely evolved a much larger average penis size. I don't think many women want a guy with a tiny or huge dicK though. I'd say if your 5-7 your doing great and if your 4-8 your fine. If your much bigger or smaller things are fine but your size may not be ideal to most women.

[Tarvold]

I think that there are enough uninformed and insecure guys and girls out there screaming this big d***/small d*** banter at each other that the people who actually have value to add to this discussion and is actually confident about their equipment gets silenced out.

In fact, I created this link to highlight the fact that there's no way that girls can be so accurate with the descriptions of the penis' they've worked with.

It's sad, really... there's definitely room for guys and girls who don't have these hangups to talk openly about d***s so that we can all get better at using them.

[TheDigitalSaint]

There's a lot of insecure people out there period, both male and female. What you said above I think has a lot of truth to it.

[swiftsaver602]

Sounds about right to me!

[Noodlenoodle]

Yes! You got it right! I would just like to say, that at one point in time I was very insecure about my size, so I read studies about penis size and stuff, and after reading about the averages/medians recorded by various studies, I'm absolutely appalled by what women on this website say. Honestly, some of these claims by women are so exaggerated that it's ridiculous! And because of these exaggerated claims, guys' insecurities are only fueled. It's a sad cycle.

[7gnat]

Nail on the "head" ...nail on the "head"

[WoIIie]

Ouch!

[7gnat]

Gotta be better than the pain olympics yes?

[WoIIie]

Pain olympics? lol

[7gnat]

wow man you don't know? link