I'm positive he does want to sleep with you. Drinking will make people act differently so write that off the best you can. I mean he was still present and coheriant enough to know he may have offended you , but I do get the sense he wants more from you than just bedroom playtime.
The supervisor co-worker deal seems to be the only red-flag. Assume you two already hooked up went good for a week or two then break it off. Someone has harsh feelings about it. How would you feel and handle it and would it be worth it to interfere with the working environment. Keep in mind He would spill about what goes on between you, if he's already letting others know he digs ya.
So your business will be everyone's knowledge, Is that worth it?0 1 0 0Yeah, the friend who pretty much outed him said that the guy wants me. I talked with a friend about the situation, and she said that what was good about the situation was that Mark still had presence of mind not to actually have done something while we were talking, although there really were times when I thought he would kiss me while we were talking, especially when he made me take off my glasses to stare at me. What made you say that he wants something more from me?
If something did happen, I don't think I want it to be just a hookup. I admit I am attracted to him, but yeah, I don't think I can sacrifice the working relationship we have. I don't think he's the type who'll blab about what's going on; I get the feeling that he and his friend were drunk when they talked about me. Sorry for my vague comments. I'm just really confused about the situation. I'm pretty used to guys flirting with me, but what happened between us felt different. I don't know.
By him being concerned about your feelings of how he acted the night before shows me he cares about you more than just a hook up. I know you are constipating a relationship with him , so maybe ask for a casual date as a way of scoping him out for his real interests in you.
This was a great story. Sounds very similar to many times in my own life... I'm pretty sure he likes you more than just a booty call...
Like standUP said though - you're co-workers, you have to keep your business and personal lives separate.0 0 0 0What made you say that he likes me more than just a booty call? I mean, granted, before the training, he was already flirting over text and email, but I'm just confused about what the extent of his feelings are. He could just be physically attracted to me, and that's it.
Most men get a bad rep in this respect... most women "think" that guys are only interested in sex, but most are interested in more than that
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