Do girls talk about having sex to their friends?

Like do you ladies talk about the sex you had the previous night? Do you talk about penis size or how much he came? Was it good? Etc. I will be honest, us guys never talk about that, or at least with my friends we do not, we keep our sexual experiences private, but do you ladies talk about that? I ask because I have a feeling you do. I work with all women me, being the only guy, half who are my age, and they kinda talk among themselves and I have over heard a couple times, and I think they were talking about sex, also at another job, I know these two girls were trying to figure out how I would be in bed, I was actually asked this by one of them. So it seems like women talk about it much more than men.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I only divulge details with close friends (I have 2 I would feel comfortable having this conversation with) and I don't really talk penis size, load, etc... it's more of, I don't think he liked it when I did this any suggestions or I was think of trying this instead have you ever tried it or he did this and it was different but great! And of course we talk birth control and all the technical stuff we have to worry about too...

    And I have some friends (not included in the above group) that have definitely been around the block a few more times than I have and I know are a bit more adventurous than I am and they feel comfortable discussing their sex lives in vivid detail. But mostly they talk about sex in general and their experiences. I ask a lot of questions especially about stuff that I don't ever plan on trying myself. =P But those kinds of conversations have less to do with the guy and more to do with her experiences and what she felt, why they like it, etc.

  • I've had discussions with girlfriends about my sex. It could be to live vicariously through me - not all women get laid as often as men think they do. Sometimes it was to compare notes on techniques. Penis size if they were exceptionally big or small. Talk about problems (is this premature ejaculation?). Most of the time it was to inquire about the elusive orgasm. Most of the girlfriends in my past never had one - and they wanted advice.

    We didn't talk about masturbation, compare sex toys, or how many partners we had.

    • Fuck. Now I'm going to have performance anxiety knowing I'm performing in front of an audience. Great.

    • Dude, don't worry. Be a great lover and you will have no problems. ; )

  • 1. Yes, girls talk about all of this.

    2. Girls don't notice/care how much a guys comes (in terms of load size).

    3. Girls dish more often and in more detail than guys ever do. I think it's probably because guys are raised to be manly and great in bed and when they're not, they're too embarrassed to ask for advice. Girls are allowed to be more open about sex and dating because we don't have those same expectations and it's okay for us to ask for advice, et cetera.

  • You know, I think the older women get, the more they talk about it. I used to never talk about it..but now I usually divulge every little thing about my sex life to my close friends. I really just think that we get more comfortable with our sexuality and are okay with talking about it.

    • How in depth do you go?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Surprisingly enough we don't talk about it. My friends are big athletes or model, kind of assholes you think would brag but don't. Just we had a good night. I think its different in high school and college sports where a group of guys are talking about sex. I know with my college athlete buddies, we joke pretty seriously but its NEVER at the girl's expense. Which is odd. But I think its pretty grown up. Bragging about what you did to a chick is kind of junior high'ish. "OMG, she gave me a HJ and BJ... OMG OMG OMG..."

    • Yah, its not really odd either, like my friends have parties and we get laid, but the only thing we ever joke around about is this one friend was really drunk had had sex like 3 times with this really annoying girl, but like we never go into sexual details.

    • We had a guy do some fat girl, but we never made sexual comments like "Is she loose?" or whatever... I mean I have asked if a girl's thinger was like the Sarlacc pit, and if she was Jabba... but that's it...

    • Haha, sarlacc pit...

  • No, a lot of guys talk about it. A lot.

    Also, girls talk about it a ton. I dated a British girl for two and a half years and after six months all of her best friends knew how big my penis was, how much I came, what I liked sexually, etc etc etc.

    Everyone talks. It's human nature.

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  • Only with my close friends, but yes in general a lot of girls do.

    • What do you guys talk about?

    • Size, what he was good at, what he wasn't so good at, how long he lasted, etc.

  • I don't tell people I work with or friends, but I tell my best friend everything. We talk about penis size, if it was good, everything basically lol.

  • sometimes maybe with a close friend but that's about it.

  • if my friends and I Ever talk about it, its usually only if its something weird that he did and freaked us out. other than that seriously we don't talk about it. I think its best to keep those kind of sexperiences to yourself :]