My boyfriend wants to give me oral but I'm embarrassed, help?

He's been telling me for a long time now that he wants to go down on me. I only go down on him but I don't let him go down on me because I'm embarrassed. I'm embarrassed about how it will taste and how it will smell down there even if I shower. He keeps insisting and I don't know what to do anymore. Any tips?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Most guys like the smell & taste of a woman! I've kissed my husband after he went down on me & it doesn't taste bad at all! What is your take on cunnilingus? Do you think it's hot & does it turn you on by the thought of it? Or do you think a guys face should never be around a womans nether region?

    If your subconscious about the way you smell or taste, have him do it while your in the shower...u get in first & clean your lady bits (make sure to get all of the soap off), then have him come in...make this time for foreplay...wash him..hair, then body & while working on the bodyhave him lean on the wall & give him a nice back rub, after all washed off, turn him around and give him a blow job...once he's finished cont foreplay (fingering, kissing ect) until you can't take it anymore...then you lean against the wall & let him go to town...The reason I suggest doing it in a shower isn't just because u'll both be clean, but because showers give the feeling of relaxation & believe me your going to want to be relaxed while his face is in your pie!

  • We've all been there, but once he does it the first time you'll wish you had done it sooner. Try not to think about it too much and just go with it! If it helps take a shower right beforehand if you're still self-conscious.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't worry about it and let him do it. There are pheromones produced there that are meant to attract guys, so most will like how you smell. There really isn't much of a taste other than sometimes a very slightly salty or metallic taste. I love going down on girls and one of the main reasons is that the smell turns me on. I would actually be disappointed if I went down on a girl and found out she smelled like perfume or soap instead of like p****.

  • Stop worrying about it lol. As long as you kept yourself clean, you'll be fine. He's not expecting it to smell like sweet wildflowers lol.

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  • My only tip is: don't be embarrassed. Get over it. You'll enjoy it!

  • The only tip I can offer is to stop worrying about it and just let him. He's going to love the smell and taste, and you will enjoy it too!

  • Just need to relax and enjoy it. Have a shower then get him to do it and you'll be right.

  • Vaginal taste and smell excited guys. Do not worry about it. Close your eyes and enjoy.

  • Let him. If you're worried about smell/taste, wash it good about an hour or 2 before with water but not soap. Nothing is worse than if it tastes like a bar of soap. Otherwise, he obviously wants to do it for you, so why not?

  • Don't do anything you're not comfortable with.