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Guys who like black girls, how do you feel about flat or small butt black girls?

So I have a small sometimes flattish butt depending on if I'm wearing unflattering pants. Whenever someone mentions what is the most attractive feature of black girls they say the body/booty, but I'm half Asian and well...asians girls are generally very flat lets just be honest. So it seems I took after my Asian side a little more. Whenever I walk passed black guys they sometimes snicker and mention my flatness. I feel like a bird with no wings, a defective black girl. If black girls are supposedly the least attractive, and the backside is the most attractive black girl feature, what does that make me?
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  • Haha. You and I are the same. Well, my butt isn't really small, as in I'm not a tiny, skinny, or super petite girl, but It's flatter (protrudes less) than the big booty that black women are known for. My butt isn't completely flat at all, but it can look flat in certain pants, as you said. (looks huge in certain leggings) People think I'm mixed pretty often, but I'm not. So I don't even have that as an excuse lol Really, all people have different genetics, including different body types for black people.

    I don't really notice black guys commenting on my flat ass, but I'm sure they do. I think my butt may be one reason why black men never talk to me. (Not a problem, I prefer non-black guys, specifically white guys, anyway.) But a lot of non-black guys love big asses too, now. It doesn't really do any good to pretend that all men of any race like one thing or another, but there are cultural trends. It comes down to individual preference as well.

    It is kind of disappointing when people basically gauge a black girls worth by her butt size. It's like, if you can't booty clap or be a video girl in a music video, your black girl stock plummets. I like girls and I think big butts are hot. But I don't have one and I don't need one. I love the way I look, including my bum. I'm not perfect, depending on your idea of what perfect is, but I'm comfortable in my own skin, generally. And Idc what people think of all black women. There are a lot of attractive things about me, and about you too. Focus on those. That's how I feel. I have guys check me out when I'm walking toward them and then I just think, "all your dreams will be over once I pass by" lol Seriously. What do you like about your body? Focus on that. And learn to love your little booty. Its not being conceited imo, its knowing and recognizing your strengths, physically ( and otherwise). I'm sure you have lots of attractive things that you like about yourself. What do others compliment you on? Not that it matters what other people think, but it helps to know how you are perceived. A lot of people think I'm very pretty, they may like my hair and think its unique (natural hair), they like my skin tone, my boobs, etc. And I agree with them. I also think my legs look great when I'm just wearing a shirt or in my undies. I feel too attractive to really care that much about not packing junk in the trunk. I've learned to focus on what I love. I usually focus on the negative, but it doesn't do any good when it comes to body image. Even while you may be trying to be more fit or whatever, you should always give daily credit to what you love about your body, and your personality. and be thankful that you are able bodied and healthy and alive. as one of my favorite singers says, "I've got a perfect body, but sometimes I forget, I've got a perfect body, cause my eyelashes catch my sweat, yes they do." so yeah. lol

    https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=Xs3n5LMNplE



    Her butt is flatter than mine, but still love it.

    • Im white and I honestly prefer lightskin and ebony woman with smaller butts.

  • Black guys and some Latinos are really the only ones who care about a girl having the biggest booty. It's so ridiculous that a lot of naturally thick big butt girls are getting butt shots to reach some cartoonish p*rn ideal.

    No disrespect to the naturally curvaceous sistas out there, but no one should be made to feel less than because they don't have ass

    So if you like guys outside of your race, generally they won't expect you to have a big butt. In fact the big butt could actually work against you. Just as long as you're in shape and fit that's what they care about.

    Anyway, you're mixed, even if you have flat ass I'm sure you still have curly hair and light skin so that should work in your favor if you're trying to get black guys.

    • I have curly hair but not really light skin. I'm not trying to get any particular race of guys, it was just my impression that guys who like black girls like a nice plump booty, because I get clowned by black guys for being flat.

    • I'm white and I completely agree with you. I find woman with too much ass kindve obnoxious or gross.

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    • That's a cute and perky butt to white guys lololol

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    • The first link didn't work. What do Hispanic and Asian guys like? So what you're saying is that white guys probably like me more than black guys?

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  • Baby, don't let them put salt on your little birdy booty.

    Any man worth his salt can see the beauty in you. Judging yourself by some old Biz Markie rap isn't fair to you, or other black women, who are certainly not the least attractive race. I'm white and like women of all races, enjoying the shared characteristics as well as the unique facets of each woman.

    Here's what is wonderful about black women: this is probably a little complicated to explain, but there is a subtle difference in their skin's tactile feel. A silky, lustrous glow, not like porcelain, but gold, mocha, or cappuccino. Richness. A deeper saturation of loveliness.

    I think the feel difference may have to do more with the use of moisturizer to prevent "ashy-ness", or might just be something I'm inventing in my head, but y'all are just plain silky, to me. And those lips, full and intoxicating... it's not hard to end up kissing them all night.

    Most of my favorite black women are skinny. Maybe you should try white guys. We like Corrine Bailey Rae, Hallie Barry, etc. as much as we like any other black woman. Hell, the current standard for big booties is Kim Kardashian, (sp?) and she's not even black. So don't think you've got to have one because of your black genes, or that you got cheated by your Asian genes.

    You can do lunges, squats, buy a butt workout dvd and go at it all you want, and probably end up satisfying the bigger booty crowd. But there's still lots of us out there who are looking at your face, your arms, hands, legs, breasts, the entire package. Don't let the others drag you down. You're still a beautiful butterfly. link

    • Why is that the best biracial mix?

    • There is no best. Even if I tell you you're the best. :P

  • I started to answer this but then backspaced over it. I know the mixed race thing. something back in school too. but message if you want. I do not want to say out here.

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  • White guys like flat butts, so you're fine.

    Don't feel bad!

    • It is not only white guys like flat butts,where I live I have seen plenty of black dudes hitting on women with flat butts of all races. An you wouldn't believe but these black men actually find these women hot for some reason. I have a stereotypical black butt & I have seen white men stare at me more than black guys. It's funny, every now & then I will get black dudes to stare straight at my butt,but most guys when they look at me that's all they do stare at.Believe black guys like the flatties.

  • It makes you a half-black girl with no attractive stereotypical "black" features. Or a very dark Asian.

  • Short answer? Gorgeous. Not everyone likes big booty, so find someone who likes yours.

  • You had me at blasian.

  • Start doing squats then to perk that ass up.

    Well, I hear guys saying it's not about the SIZE but the SHAPE of your bottoms.

    - Avoid wearing unflattering jeans.

    I'm the same mix as you as well. I think I have a cute ass.. Not as big but it's there.. LOL

    • I should start doing squats. I'm afraid of getting my hopes up doing all of that work and ending up disappointed with the results.

    • Well, as long as you go up each set. Builds more muscles.

    • What? What's a set? I don't exercise. I'm skinny-fat with much emphasis on the skinny.

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  • It's not ideal, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker or anything like that. I'm highly attracted to a girl's rump, but it's not the ONLY thing I'm attracted to.

  • Those are the best ones...(:(:(:

  • There are MANY various tastes that guys have in girls. There's a market for every type of female out there.

    Those black guys are just a**holes that fetishize the donkey booty...ignore them. I bet you look lovely.

    There are many guys that prefer smaller breasts, and smaller butts that are easy to grip in the palm of his hand. :)

  • If a guy likes you, I'd doubt he'd care how big your ass is. The guys that do care, you wouldn't wanna be with anyway.

  • you look fine to me so contact me :)

  • i bet you gotta cute butt

  • No one said black girls are suppose to be least attractive I'm sorry you don't have an ASSet but don't feel bad, some that aren't full black have a flat butt.

    Maybe you're more of a boob lady?

    Anyways if you have a pretty face don't worry caz not all guys are an ass man some are more into breasts.

  • My favorite! I'm the opposite of what you described. I find black women attractive, but my least favorite attribute is the stereotypical ass. Fortunately, not all of the everyday black girls you meet have a huge ass anyway.

  • they can still be hot

  • I hear allegedly about all the guys who want girls with big butts, but find it hard to believe. I like petite, slim girls, and that includes a butt that's not huge. So no worries.

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