Ladies who don't mind going topless at the beach - Does it bother you if a man stares?

[CasaNorba]

back in my native country which is located in the Caribbean I see a lot of European women who go on vacation there take off their tops at the beaches to get that natural fair tanning head to toe. so my question is... for you ladies that do this, does it bother you if a guy stares at your breast as you are tanning at the beach? if it does, why? and if it doesn't, why? i was just wondering because I always feel guilty staring at them as I'm there in the beach. plus I am a man and I don't see naked women all the time, especially coming from America; where it is taboo for women to go naked in public and for men to actually observe women with sexual desire

[udolipixie]

(for the ladies who don't mind going topless at the beach) does it bother you if a man stares?

It bothers me hence why I go all-female nudist beaches.

for you ladies that do this, does it bother you if a guy stares at your breast as you are tanning at the beach? if it does, why?

I'm not interested in being sexually objectified by guys and seen as holes for him to bust a nut in.

In my opinion, experience, and observation most guys can't find a gal attractive without sexually objectifying her possibly due to how:

- the male brain deals with objects better than people

- guys are more aroused by pictures of women without their faces

- the area that is active when guys are aroused by a woman is the same one active when guys use a tool.

I highly doubt it's taboo in America for guys to observe gals with sexual desire. Perhaps it's your environment as I've lived in several places in America and it wasn't taboo for guys to actually observe gals with sexual desire.

[katiesmuff]

As a female from Florida who tends to spend time on the few beaches where we can get away with being nude and who has gone nude on many of the Caribbean beachs I have run across many things, but never an all female nudist beach. Where might one find these beaches?

[udolipixie]

@katiesmuff Depends on where in Florida you are- Pompano, Fort Lauderdale, Weston. Some have a 'women's only' day and some are 'women only'. There's only a handful of women only and the current ones are bombarded with complaints of sexism/discrimination by guys though more likely it's guys being upset there are naked gals they don't get to stare at/sexually objectify.

[CasaNorba]

lmao! hey udolipixie have you been topless at a nude beach by any chance?

[udolipixie]

..o.O..I've answered question. I've been topless at all-female nudist beaches.

[CasaNorba]

really? so that makes me wonder how many guys ran away in fear and terror when they saw you naked

[udolipixie]

Amusing fail at insulting me seems my answer got you butthurt. Seems you also lack reading comprehension since you ask me a question I've already answered and ponder how many guys ran away in fear and terror when it's an all-female beach.

[CasaNorba]

obviously! I should of know that, since you probably don't have the courage to get nude in front of men, even though you do them a big time favor by keeping your cloth on around them. trust me! and no I'm not but hurt at all. and notice I did asked if a MAN stares at you. so your experience at an "all nude female beach" doesn't count here. but thank you very much for participating, lmao

[udolipixie]

More amusing is that bs spin. Since I don't want to go topless around guys that means I lack courage...LMFAO Probably are butthurt if you felt the need to insult me and make character assumptions.

[udolipixie]

Amusing another fail from you. You asked women who go topless at the beach if they're bothered when a guy stares. I go to all nude female beaches as I am 'bothered' by guys staring...well more like annoyed with sexual objectification but same difference. Seems more like the answers you don't like don't count perhaps because of the butthurt...LMFAO

[CasaNorba]

lmao! so I'm "butthurt" because I'm making character assumptions ey? well you are clearly making character assumption by claiming I'm "butthurt" in the first place. if I really am buthhurt what does that make you? "LIFEHURT"? yea that's right, just listening to you talk and having the need to keep coming back and claiming all men sexually objectify women just shows how LIFEHURT you are. maybe your just mad that men don't sexually objectify you.

[CasaNorba]

btw, the guys you said where staring at you in that nude beach(supposedly. since I along with all gag users don't believe that bs) had to be some desperate losers.

[udolipixie]

You're not butthurt by my answer yet you repeatedly insult me...LMFAO

[udolipixie]

Another fail. I'm not making any assumptions unlike you. I stated the probability that you were butthurt. You stated things about me as if it were facts.

[udolipixie]

Yet another fail. Nowhere did I claim "all men sexually objectify women". Show me where I claimed "all men sexually objectified women" ... ... ... oh that's right you can't because I didn't. Seems you've done some logic leaping and projecting onto 'in my opinion most guys can't find a gal attractive without sexually objectifying her'. I stated my opinion and sum of my experience/observation. I didn't state any factual or applicable claims about all men. Any more fails you have?

[CasaNorba]

truth hurts, doesn't it?

[udolipixie]

You haven't said anything true. You have likely insulted me because you feel butthurt about a slight against men you projected.

[CasaNorba]

lmao! whatever. you sound like a feminist broken record

[udolipixie]

Always amusing how often when a gal says something a guy doesn't like he uses the feminist card.

[CasaNorba]

then I'm not alone ey? go figure

[Heretic]

Massive fail there, udolipixie.

[katiesmuff]

I sunbathe nude as often as possible either on permissable nude beach, priviate pools, and nudist resorts and yes I realize there are and always will be those indiviuals who for various reasons will stare. I certainly am not shy about being seen naked and although I consider it a bit rude of a person to stare, I just consider it something that is and don't let it bother me.

One instance that gave me a chuckle was awhile back when I was with a male friend and we were both nude on a beach with many others. There was a group of young guys who continued to walk back and forth at the waters edge and it was pretty obvious they were gawking. Finally on one trip past us my friend grabbed my knees and spread me open embarassing the guys by telling them to get an eyefull! That was the last we saw of them.

[EyeAmNiceGirl]

First, I only go topless in a place where it is considered accepted behavior AND there are other women actually going topless, too. Obviously, if I took off my top at the local pool, I would get all sorts of attention, because everyone else is covered up. That said, when it is the right time and right place, I don't care if guys look or "get an eye full" as they call it. If a guy just stood there and stared, that would weird me out, but then, I would get weirded out of I was fully clothed and some guy just stood there staring at me. . . .

[soe11]

My girlfriend love it being topless on beach and hotel swimming pool. Her mom and her never mind if someone stares or gaze. Guys got to right to do that, nothing wrong don't feel guilty. If female doesn't want to see them tand shouldn't be exposure in public so come with Burqah 😆😆😋 simple as that. I don't mind at all who gaze on my girlfriend on beach and hotel swimming pool or anywhere in public.

[TheUglyOne]

Well, I tried to keep my staring very discreet lol. But I've seen enough boobs, and though I think boobs are awesome, I don't feel the need to stare at boobs or cleavage.

[Dciui]

Yes, its a nudist beach, she obviously just wants the liberation, that does not mean she's asking for it or she wants the attention, staring is just RUDE!

[ChooChooHaha]

Generally speaking no, as long as they're not all creepy old guys.

If I think you're cute at least, I'll enjoy the attention but not be obvious. If I have a thing for you and I know you're staring, I'll enjoy being stared at more and flirt and tease you mercilessly.

Cause it's like forbidden fruit to you men, no?

[CasaNorba]

sounds hot. not that I have anything against your views but I was wondering can young guys be creeps too?

[ChooChooHaha]

Of course on the creep thing. But it is, no? Like forbidden fruit to you men? Why don't I mind? For one thing, I'm a human being with boobs. It's not like a grotesque thing in 2022. I refuse to be ashamed... but I'll probably be somewhat shy, especially if I have a thimg for you... and knowing at least straight men will appreciate the sight of me almost absolutely naked before them, is the cherry on the sundae.

[juliegirl18]

staring is rude, but its going to happen. I don't mind it unless its like gawking. if a guy didn't look, I'd wonder what was wrong with me.

[cristinaboss]

If it bothers them, why would they go to a topless beach? It makes no sense.

[CasaNorba]

since women want everything their way now a days

[sammy67]

Not really I'm topless , you can look just don't touch them .If I didn't want them to look I would just put on a top .

[Enideqa]

It would make me very uncomfortable that's why I wouldn't do it.

[teasingdaughter17]

only been to one, but I like when guys stare. some can be creepy, but its fun.

[JennieF]

Heck no!

[Anonymous]

If I had an issue with people seeing me naked, I probably won't go to a nudest beach, just saying.

[Anonymous]

If they are in a place with a lot of people they are asking for it.

If the woman is alone and you randomly stumble upon her then it's very rude. Like if she is by herself on a deserted beach. Don't stare, just go your own way.

[Anonymous]

If a woman goes to a nude beach and it bothers her that guys are staring at her. That would make her an idiot.