I slept with a guy twice on a first date. We met on a dating site. It was great both times. He reached out to hold my hand afterwards. He was caressing my back afterwards like he cared. We smiled at each other on his way out. But, I don't even know his last name. It's been 3 days. Will he call? In case he's shy, should I just call him? Or, was this just a booty call? If I just want a booty call, can I call, or does he just think I'm a slut now? Could he just like hitting a girl once then moving on to the next? Or, is he just clueless? How long afterwards would you call if you liked the girl? How long afterwards would you call if you just wanted a booty call?
First, as you appear to suspect, you don't know--and perhaps he doesn't know--whether he likes you yet. If you (and he) want to find out, you're going to have to go on a few dates and share some quality time.
The good news is that the sex works. Let him know, make a date.
P.S.: If he thinks you're a slut, he's a idiot; it's not like you were in bed alone.
Booty call. Don't sleep with a guy on the first date. Chances are he will never call you again. Not that he thinks you're a slut, but if you gave it up to him on the first date, he thinks you're giving it up to everyone on the first date.
Chances are he is not clueless and knows exactly what he is doing. Chances are, you are kinda clueless. Chances are I'm right.
What?! You don't know his last name? Aww girl, I'm sorry to say this but you should really wait before jumping in the sack so soon. The problem with being so quick to have sex is that now you don't know his motives and you don't know how he feels. We can't even tell you what he wants. If a guy wants a booty call he will call you whenever he feels he wants to get laid (which could be a few days to a month or so). You can call him but what happens next will determine what he really wanted. More importantly, what do you want?
First I hope you used a condom. But he might like you, you never know. I would give it a couple days then maybe email him on the dating site you meet him on. If he does not respond or gives you a funky response just chalk it up to experience
BOOTY CALL! If you are that interested in a guy don't sleep with him too soon, especially not on the first date. Really it's all up in the air, it depends. He may or may not call. Don't call him if he doesn't call you though. And if you want to get a guy to like you in the future, hooking up so early is not the greatest way to do it.
He probably won't call. Sorry if that sounds harsh but it is true. I Can not believe you slept with someone who you don't know. He is not going to want anything more now that you have given him what he wants with out any commitment.
You have broken the rules for getting a relationship and have given him the wrong impression about yourself.
If he was interested and had a good date a guy would normally call between 2 - 5 days afterwards because they don't want to make you wait but they don't want to come across as desperate either!
In the future if you want a relationship with someone or another date don't sleep with them until you have been on a few dates i.e at least five or have made it official!