Why do guys think its OK to grab or slap girls butts when you're in a club?

I have had this happen countless times and I know it happens to lots of other girls too. Why do guys think its ok? Girls how do you react? I've thrown a few drinks over guys but sometimes it happens in a crowd and I have no idea who it was. Grrr!
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  • You go to a club. A club.. does it ring a bell to you? No?

    Personally I don't go to clubs, few reasons - I hate the music there, I don't like alcohol, I can't dance to save my life & I don't want easy girls, someone who will be gone the next day.

    You see - guys don't go to a club "to have fun" - I've heard some girls go there 'to dance & relax' but guys there are ON THE HUNT.

    ..and they don't 'hunt' for a GF, they hunt for an easy girl to take, use & discard. Even if she's naive and thinks it's something serious, they don't care, if she already knows the drill then it's even better.

    It should be a bit more clear now... girls in a club are just meat, don't expect anyone to 'respect' you there, you're in a wrong place.

    • I'm sorry but that doesn't make it OK. We should be able to go wherever we wish. Just because 'guys there are ON THE HUNT' doesn't mean that girls that go should expect to be felt up. I'm not there looking for 'respect' but for a fun night out with my friends. Am I not entitled to enjoy myself, free from grabby hands, because I'm a woman? Where exactly would you suggest I go when I fancy a night out with friends?

    • Choose some other place? As much as you may dislike how it is, you are AWARE of stuff like that happening at the clubs so it's stupid if you still go there expecting that something different may happen.

    • Also to be honest, looking at your pictures you doesn't seem like that kind of girl who doesn't want that - everything about you screams: "I want ATTENTION" - so don't whine when happens something YOU could prevent - I've seen this plenty of times - a girl goes out wearing mini around a bunch of drunken, suspicious guys but hey - she still got the nerve to complain about attention! Talking about pure idiocy...

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  • Yeah they must be dumb. All they have to do is talk a bunch of sappy nonsense and they would get the whole package.

    • Dammit, I had a decent streak of zero downvotes.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh don't you know? Just by being there, we're "asking for it." -_-

    My friend got her butt grabbed in CLASS. It's not a matter of where you're at, it's a matter of the attitude of the person doing it. Being at the club just gives them more of an excuse to do it. It's like when they're horny, they assume everyone is. Or they just plain don't care.

    • The amount of cavemen who downvotted this is staggering

  • Reading some of the guy's answers on here makes me wanna puke...

    • It's disgusting isn't it...

    • dudemans just crazy, don't mind him

    • I know, he's one of the worst guys on here.

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  • i hate it

    • Wow, a thumbs down for having self-respect.

  • They're immature and they think you'll be turned on by it. Slap them back in the face haha.

  • Most don't. I've never done it. Why do girls think its acceptable to pretend grind on an ugly guy while her friends laugh? Why do girls think its acceptable to pretend to be interested in a guy to get him to buy her drinks?

  • Funny enough... I know the feeling. I don't want girls slapping my ass either but it has happened. Hard to do something about it however. As a guy I can't really throw drinks over them can i?

    • I'd say yes! :D

  • I do not think that your subject matter is OK...o.O

  • My guess would be that either those guys are drunk when they do it or they are horny because they went to the club to hook up or both of those reasons.

  • I think it's a peasant behavior. That may be good in the Stone Age.

    • Some neanderthal downvoted you...

    • yes, from stone age

    • stone age people were very intelligent , in fact they had the same intellect as modern humans, what separates us from them is scientist and the scientific meathod. so if you are not a scientist you are essentially a neanderthal

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  • says the girl making duckfaces and bending over in her pics

    • WTF have my pics got to do with anything? If you have nothing constructive to say then don't bother. Trying to make ME out to be something, yet you do so anonymously. Pathetic and cowardly.

    • he means you look like the kind of girl who its OK to slap their ass, like dave chappelle said you may not be a whore but you are wearing a whores uniform

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  • That's what those hos are there for. They shaking their ass on a dude's crotch, but don't touch them. lmao No, I'm getting my fill.

    • Are you the type of girl that goes to clubs and grinds? I don't think you can have it both ways if you are.