Every day is probably too much for me as well. Every other is probably okay. This is why I've always believed that a compatible libido is important for relationship.
Whenever something is pushed upon you or you are inundated with something, you tend not to not want it or push it away. Desire is something that cannot be forced.
You're probably going to have ease up on the amount of sex and let him recoup naturally to see where is level of desire is. Keep in mind, a slow down is not unusual as the relationship progresses. I don't believe this is a reflection on how he feels about you.1 0 0 0I've seen enough relationships ruined due to incompatible libido to tell you it's a major concern, you should talk to him about your worries. Anyway, it looks like he doesn't enjoy sex that much. What does he think about just make out without intervourse ?
1 0 0 0He says he does. He cums every time we have sex. He just rarely initiates it. I just want someone who grabs me and takes total control. He doesn't do that and it makes me feel unwanted. My ex boyfriend used to do that all the time.
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All people are different. You can't force your Sex drive onto someone. Imagine if the roles were reversed and you really didn't want to have sex and he was constantly pressuring you to? It's not a nice feeling. Have some empathy for fuck's sake, put yourself in his shoes. And if you really can't stand it, he's probably not the guy for you.
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0 2I have the same feeling with my girlfriend. Nearly in the same place as you. But I have sex anyway, rugged, forcibly, give her a lot pleasure, stops in between, ask for my pleasure and then fuck her until she gets tired. Works like a charm.
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Rock his worlds.0 0 0 0Sounds like the female counterpart to "men are shallow pigs and only really care about one thing".
1 0 0 0What do you mean? I do know that he is not very experienced. He's only been w a few girls while I have been with 34 guys including him. So maybe he feels uncomfortable about it.
Apologies to you, QA. Nothing wrong at all with what you wrote, in and of itself. I just see so many comments, here and elsewhere, about men being shallow and single minded about sex, I felt it important to point out that it's not just men.
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