Is there any advantage to a bigger penis during a bj?

[Anonymous]

I ask because I'm well endowed in both areas, length and girth, and unfortunately that means a few disappointing things during bjs. When my girlfriend gives me bjs she can only get a little more than the head in her mouth and even when deep throating the most she's gotten in is about half. Now don't get me wrong, I'm certainly not complaining. Her bjs are fantastic. I'm only asking if there is anything I can do to help her get more of me in her mouth since she really wants to deep throat and I think it would be awesome to be totally down her throat. Also any tips to help with the girth, since she says it makes her jaw a little sore.

[Anonymous]

depends on how big your mouth is. if you can open your mouth pretty wide, probably not as big a problem, although there may still be a few set backs

i doubt it. I don't think you can make her mouth bigger or your penis smaller. she could deep throat it when its not as hard. I believe **** rings keep some of the blood flow from the penis and thus you may be able to control erection and how completely hard you are. maybe look up **** rings and controlling erections. this can also mean longer bjs. I think, I've never tried it.

all I can say is that must feel great. not all the way in, that would probably ruin me but like halfway down on it must feel great. lucky girl!

i would tell her to be careful before she hurts herself though. you're probably not going deep throat a **** that big. if you could, you probably would have done it by now. that's my opinion.

[Asker]

Well she does kinda deepthroat it when its not as hard. As far as **** rings go though I think that would make the problem worse ha ha since that restricts the blood flow and makes it even thicker. Wait I'm confused though, you're saying it feels good for the girl to have it in her throat? Cus she can definitely get about half of it in, so that feels good for her?

[Opinion Owner]

oh no, I meant in the vag. ;) i don't think deep throating a big penis feels good, personally. you may get turned on by it, especially if she likes you. assuming she does :) she may like the challenge, but I don't think it feels good in her throat, no lol sometimes a bigger penis looks better. sometimes, not always

[Asker]

Ohhhhh! Haha okay I was confused. So a bigger penis does feel better in your p****? We're both virgins so I didn't know that for sure haha. Yeah I think it does turn her on haha, cus she always wants to try to get it as deep as she can. Also I think it's almost like a subconscious thing for her cus one time she had me in her mouth and she just shoved it as deep as she could when she came haha

[Opinion Owner]

it depends on the girl really, but id say a thicker penis feels good generally. too thick can hurt, but id say its more common that too long hurts more. I don't think most guys or even you are thick to the point that its always going to hurt. may leave you a bit sore after though. sometimes it feels good in the moment, but you're sore after. on the other hand. just be gentle and ease your way in. don't slam it in like a jack hammer - that's not fun especially not for a virgin lol

[Opinion Owner]

yeah you sound lucky too because I don't think most women have that instinct. I have friends who admit to just sucking the tip and using their hands for the rest. on average penises, at that. they can't be bothered with it

[Asker]

Yeah you're probably right about the thickness, I mean I'm not massive, but quite a bit bigger than average so I assume it won't hurt if she's really wet and warmed up and I don't jam it in obviously haha. I've heard sore means that it was a good time? Yeah I definitely think I'm lucky since she's super gung ho about trying to deepthroat me haha

[Anonymous]

Nope nothing. She's just going to have to suck it up. Pun intended.

[Asker]

There's no way to help her get more of it down her throat?

[Opinion Owner]

Changing the angle maybe. But from experience that only does so much.

[Asker]

Okay like what angle works best then?

[Opinion Owner]

Depends on the shape/curve of it. I really can't say what works the best. Sex isn't the same for everyone and neither is oral. The only way you'll figure it out is trial and error.

[Anonymous]

Your going to have to teach her to use her hand on the shaft and just use her mouth on the tip. I have had the same problem with some girls. If she is good with her touge and hands it can make up for it.

[Asker]

Well yeah I know what you mean there. She does do that, just hoping that she can get more of it down her throat.