My boyfriend says he can SMELL when I'm on my period. Guys, can you smell when a girl is on her period?

Okay so today I told my boyfriend I wasn't feeling well because I am on my period, and said that he already knows and I asked how he knows and he told me that he could smell it and that he always can. Maybe he just has a good nose. I mean, I can smell it too but I figured only I could because it is my body and I'm familiar with the smell so I detect it even when its "faint". Or at least I thought it was faint, but I guess I really stink if he can smell it. Girls, how can I make it so that he doesn't smell it? It's not like I took my underwear off. I had on sweatpants when he said he could smell it. I use pads not tampons because I'm afraid of those.
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I'm also afraid of getting a yeast infection from scented pads, that is why I use unscented. I'm very sensitive to those kind of things. I can't even use soaps with fragrance down there.
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  • I prefer to use pads only too, and although my pas of choice happens to be scented I didn't choose it for that reason.

    Buy a thinner pad (more comfortable and less 'sits' as they tend to be super absorbant rather than thick like bad diapers) for a lighter flow and change it more regularly. Do you have a particularly heavy flow? How soon can you smell it?

    Be sure to shower every day, perhaps twice a day when you're on your period. And especially after any physical activity.

    I've also found that by keeping the hair downstairs to a minimum (whether you wax, shave or just trim) less smell is generated because its less sweaty downstairs.

    As to your boyfriend smelling it... My boyfriend has never mentioned that he can smell mine, but he can frequently tell when I'm aroused just by the smell. I do think that people are slightly more finely attuned to the scents of people they are close to. But probably not HUGELY so.

    • I usually use the "regular flow" pads. I almost never use the thin kind because I have a fear of having leaks, because I used to have them a lot frequently in the past when I used to use ultra thin pads. I shower everyday, usually once. Umm...for me I find that I can't smell it until like more 5 hours after I shower, and then the smell gets worse from there and when I wake up in the morning before I take my shower that is when it is the worst. It is also way worse my last couple of days

    • of my cycle. When my boyfriend told me he could smell it I had only just changed my pad like less than an hour ago, but it was more than 5 hours after my shower. He didn't like plug his nose or run away from me or sound disgusted, he acted normal.

    • Change all pads at least about every 4 hours during the day. If you get thin pads with wings, position them right and change them regularly you'll avoid leaks. Wear cotton underwear - less likely to make you sweat and minimise odor risk. Also, at one stage Li-lets were giving 'feminine hygiene wipes' out. They're basically wet wipes. If you get hypo-allergenic baby wet wipes and pack a few into a smaller zip lock bags and use those when you change pads it'll refresh you instantly.

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  • hi dear i have the very same problem but mine is worse because my boyfriend keeps on telling me that i stink when im in my periods even worse he suggested i sleep on the floor when im in my periods, he hates periods with all of his heart and alays make uncomfortable and hurtful comments about my periods

  • Don't listen to what they are saying about scented product it's very bad for your lady bits. Just change more often and make sure you clean well, even shower twice a day. Tampons also work , but I like yourself am not really a fan so changing more frequently and showers are my preferred method.

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  • Yes. I believe it is more from the hormones being released in your skin and breath than anything downstairs. It is just nature. It is a different smell, not bad or gross.

  • Yeah I can. If I'm close enough to the woman.

    Although I have a pretty good sense of smell...

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  • Change your pads more often.

    And spray down there with something like this...

    link .

    It will cover up the scent.

    You have nothing to feel embarrassed about.

    • People give thumbs down for the hell of it. That spray is specifically made to spray against underwear, pads and.or the vagina.

  • its possible if you were a pad an havnt changed it in awhile,...i would try and use tampons so you don't have to worry :)

  • I know you're afraid of trying it out, but tampons (the only way, really)! They are way more comfortable once you get used to them... if feels completely normal as opposed wearing a diaper.

  • Just use tampons, otherwise there's really no way to not smell it. And once you start using them you will never go back to pads.

    • I'm too afraid of using tampons. I prefer pads, they're comfortable. Is there really no way to prevent my boyfriend from smelling it? Do you think its weird that he can smell it?

    • There's really no way, the scented pads reduce the smell but then you smell like scented pad instead. And no, it's not weird, everyone can smell it.

  • is your bf a shark?

    • LOL.. is that why women should not go in the ocean during their periods

    • haha of course! too dangerous!

  • use tampons. ya its possible.

  • This is totally normal! I do it as well - I think it's something to do with self diagnosis, like just checking for any abnormalities in your bodily function. And don't listen to those guys who say its disgusting - they probably smell their own semen and farts and check on their poo!

  • i can smell couch from a mile away

  • Tampons. However I can still smell it and its a pleasant smell. Scented tampons and pads are a dead gicve away though.

  • I can smell when a woman is on their period and honestly I think it depends on the woman who's on it. I think it's just the woman's hormones mixed with the scent of the pad. The smell isn't bad but I personally don't like the smell.

  • hmm. change pads more often. or use fds products link

  • its possible. use scented pads.

  • ew yess! I'm a girl and I can smell it when other girls are on there period! Ugh even the idea of it makes me wanna throw up in my mouth RIGHT NOW! try and use scented products! if he is gonna smell something it might as well be that! It happens to plenty of women, that odor, and that's why the scented pads sell so well! I really recommend trying it girl!

  • Maybe he's trying to tell you to use perfume lol...just sayin...please don't hate me!