Guys: Holding hands during sex?

[Anonymous]

What does this mean? I've been seeing this guy for a couple months now, but its nothing serious between us. We started a friends with benefits relationship because he isn't in the place for a committed relationship. For the past month we've been seeing each other more often. During sex, he'll hold my hand tightly at times. It's not the whole time we're having sex but it has happened the past 3 times. Does this mean he could be into me as more than a friends with benefits? Or am I over thinking it?

[TheDigitalSaint]

Read this for starters:

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If a guy tells you he isn't interested in a committed relationship, accepting a FWB and hoping for hte best usually is a poor strategy. He may like passionate sex, but that doesn't mean he's passionate about you as a person. If he's making no further hints to hang out with you and "date you" like a real boyfriend, you're just seen as someone hot and available to have sex with. If you have no other indicators that he's headed in that direction, I'd say think twice about continuing FWB.

[corbmonster]

ditto

[SuperCurious]

My guy and I hold hands/interlock fingers when we are getting really passionate. He could be a passionate guy and he cares for you more. Just make sure to not read too far into this and always know that if he wants you as more than a friends with benefits he will tell you. Don't expect otherwise :( too many girls I know get heartbroken from this.

[teasegirl]

Hey I've been there and just as a warning get out of that before you get hurt. Apparently when guys say FWB is just that for them even if you think there's some sparks going on in the bed room that's where that relationship will stay, in the bedroom. And if you have doubts just straight up ask him, I'm sure you guys can talk about it. Good luck