Rough sex seems to appeal to some girls because it removes the need to act "slutty" since the guy is doing it TO them.
Some like it because they get off on the idea of a strong dominant male taking them.
Some like it because they have a low self image.
Some like it because they were abused and grew up thinking that was what sex is about.
There are probably other models too. Depending on why you like what you like, it could be completely normal or it could be kind of kinky either in a good or a bad way. Up to you.
Whatever the answer, your likes are your likes and don't ever let anybody make you feel bad about them. Just be careful and always have a safe-word and a partner you can trust with your life.
Yep, that's very normal. What's NOT cool is that society has made you feel like it's not normal.
Thank you for the BA!
I agree with the anonymous girl "I wouldn't call it normal. I also wouldn't call it abnormal."
It's what turns you on. But personally I don't like the rough s*x. I feel it's like an insult for the girl. I wouldn't be turned on by it, I would feel like I'm in a fight with someone lol. In addition, my body is week so I don't think I can handle this. I prefer something gentle and romantic.
. I feel it's like an insult for the girl. Wrong if she likes it its not an insult. Guys are animalistic and its natural to be rough in bed/having sex. We were hunters and gatherers not the women.
Weak* But it's not like you're a hunter, your fathers were! :P Plus, hunter are supposed to be there to hunt animals not girls.
If you like it is OK. I had a boyfriend that who was rough but only when he was asleep, It was like having sex with two different people. When he was awake he was sweet and gentle, but when he was asleep, he was liked a wild animal. I liked it when he was asleep, lol.
Did the two of you have sex while he was asleep? ;)
Same here
If you like it then it's perfectly normal.
Miss Couture - kudos to you for being honest and nonjudgmental, unlike the anon woman below clearly tries to make the QA believe she is wrong to like what she does. Anon below: you sound like a prude, a feminazi, or both.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Like everyone else said, as long as you are OK with it, there is nothing "wrong" or abnormal with it.
I mean, I'm aggressive in bed as well and I like when a girl is aggressive to me as well.
It's basically one is being dominate and one is being submissive, in just different ways people do it. Dirty talk is pretty much always included, most of the times.
But as long as both partners enjoy it, it's awesome right? :)
PERFECTLY normal :-)
If you both love to do that, then there is no obstacle to both of you enjoy. I don't like those things, but it is not an obstacle for you.
I love a nice hard spanking till I beg for mercy.
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Some women like it, some don't.
Sadly my partner doesn't -_-
I think its normal its just part of the sexual fetish. If you are happy and comfortable with it, its fine.
I do that kind of stuff to my girlfriend all the time. Choking, rape fantasies, pick her up and throw her up against the wall, etc. It is a lot of fun. :)
My girlfriend needs to get this memo. I always want to choke her randomly during the day.
Hahah that's awful.
Figured it'd be a good way to incorporate the two. I could whisper something sweet in her ear like: "Hey lets go in my room so I can bang you out and choke you". She would be sure to melt and get instantly wet.
Well I wouldn't call it normal.
I also wouldn't call it abnormal.
What you are doing is within the range of what I would call typical hardcore dirty sex.
It's typical so don't worry!
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