She doesn't get very wet, so she isn't turned on?
My new girlfriend doesn't get very wet, a little yes.. but it's also hard to make her wet.
She says she is turned on, and she asks me to have sex often, but then when I start touching her she is dry? so I don't get it? is she lying and not really that turned on?
My ex girlfriend was very wet , easily, I can say she was wet always , she was even embarrassed about it.
So comparing to my new girlfriend I don't really know what is wrong ? she isn't so much turned on like my ex?
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
She is not as wet as your ex because she is NOT your ex. She is a whole and different person then your ex. Did you ever stop and think that? I mean everyone is different. So she does not lubricate well. Help her out. A small dab of KY, tasteless odorless, goes a long way. She may need a lot more foreplay before she gets to an acceptable level of wet.
Part of the turn off might be that you are comparing her to the ex!
Ever stop and think that she might not be wet cause you are not as endowed as her ex?
What Girls Said 4
Ask her what she likes.. find out what really gets her there and don't enter her until she is wriggling and practically begging for it :)
Don't compare your ladies.. that is tacky. All women are different and if she found out you were comparing her she would be embarrassed and hurt.
Are you giving her oral sex? Cos if you give a girl head there is basically no chance of her not gettiing wet, so that is one possible solution.
If all fails use lube. But for the love of god try everything else before you do.