Girls I need tips on finger play when touching my girlfriend's vagina so please help me out? Thanks

My girlfriend and I are both virgins so I'm not very experienced. We were making out like crazy last night and I put my hand down her pants and rubbed around for a few minutes. She felt hairy and wet lol. All I did was rub around in circles and an up and down motion so I don't know how good that really felt for her. Should I have put a finger inside her or how will I know if she wants a finger inside and how do I know if I should use one finger or two or more?
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  • 1. Keep fingernails trimmed and fingers free of callouses.

    2. Locate clitoris, if she is dry, try sucking a nipple or getting some lubricant before continuing.

    3. Rub in circles in a rhythmic fashion for a few minutes... No need to rub fast. Maybe one circle per second until the moaning starts then slowly increase.

    4. If you put a finger in her vagina, locate the g-spot and rub it. Rub both the clit and the g-spot if you want her to orgasm quickly.

    5. If you want to have sex with her, don't make her orgasm and then expect to get any.

    6. If you stop rubbing you may have to start all over again, but probably not with a virgin at least for a little while.

  • Two or more?

    Are you insane?

    If she's a virgin odds are your fingers will probably hurt her, disregard what p*rn tells you *face palm*

    The focus should be on the clitoris, it's as sensitive as your whole penis so be gentle but do apply pressure. Circular motions are good and any motions (my girl friend likes fast motions personally), focus on the clitoris.

    And don't lie to yourself, you're the one that wants that finger in her. But don't do so without asking and stop if she says it's uncomfortable.

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  • A key factor in a healthy relationship is communication. You should be able to talk about these kinds of things.

    No girl is going to be able to tell you what your girlfriend will like... Other than your girlfriend.

    • We're both quiet shy people though and she is super shy. Her face turns super red sometimes just when I touch her arms or back but I can tell she likes it because she will lean back on me so our bodies are touching. I don't think she really will tell me exactly what she likes because she's so shy and innocent.

    • not being able to communicate your desires isn't really innocent, it's just immature and naive, if you are hooking up and able to put your hand down her pants then you should be mature enough to communicate your desires and what feels good

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  • Go by her reaction. Start gentle and slow. Some girls have hypersensitive bits down there so if you get a really strong reaction make sure it's a good one before continuing.

    If you're close enough to be playing around with her naughty bits you should be close enough to talk about what feels best for her.

  • well i think you can first lick the vagina and then slowly rub your finger in circular motion . try stimulating clitoris. after some time insert your finger inside the vagina and then move your finger as if you were trying to call someone. iam damn sure she will like it