Flirting? bragging about the size of his penis? advice please.

[Anonymous]

I really like my best friend, but I haven't told him. & I recently found out from his sister that he's been repeatedly asking her if I like him & she told that he says "Idc what anyone says I know she likes me" So now he doesn't know that I know that he thinks I may like him. Anyway for the entire year that I liked him so far he's been flirting with me, he tickles me, he kissed me on my cheek, we talk for hours, and we tell each other everything, he also offered to escort me to my prom. To the point, now that I find out that he's suspicious, I feel like this whole time he's been just trying to tease me. Lately he's been talking about his penis size a lot, and making jokes and bragging about how big he is. It got to a point where we were sitting down talking, and he randomly showed me a picture of his penis on his phone, and when I gasped (because I was so shocked he did it) he laughed. I don't know know what's going on here. He's really nice and we tell each other everything, like I said he's my best friend. But I'm starting to doubt everything, and I think maybe he's only trying to tease me, and I really have no chance with him. This all makes me feel dumb, like a little girl sorta. And I don't want to admit that I am in love with him and ruin things and make everything worse.. What do you think ? Any advice or thoughts ?(preferably guys, but girls can help to obviously) Thanks in advance

[parkway]

First and very important, he is not your best friend. You are lieing to yourself. He is showing you his junk and best friends don't do that in that way. Which means he knows you have the hots for him.

Here is the situation. You love him. He loves to get a piece. It is difficult to know what you are wanting to know. If the question is does he love you? Think what you want to think. In your mind you will believe that he does but never does love begin with showing off a penis. That is lust.

Good luck,

[dnately]

I think that he is a bit immature, but so are you, so that's OK :)

The penis thing is his attempt to get the conversation into sexual tracks. It really never works, but inexperienced guys do it a lot.

Anyway, it's clear to me that you both have feelings for each other, but you are both too scared to admit it.

[AD5866]

hes just saying he's big down there to impress you. guys think girls only like guys who are big in that department. he probably likes you

[G_GTom]

That may not be the only type of guy they like, but they strongly prefer them. Just read these forums.

[stubbsy]

This guy is so immature, you should never consider a guy who is openly thinking that his penis is the centr of a relationship, so drop this dead beat, he gives guys a bad name, and save your talents for a worthy man because yes, all he wants is sex from you, and his actions prove this, because no real man goes around showing pictures to girls of his penis, this is just weird and perverse. Be warned,x

[CorneliaisPretty]

i think this guy is right

[xxDizzyxx]

Women are going to love to agree with this but if he's inexperienced this is probably how he's going to. Flirt or if he's drunk and under 25 lol. Not neccessarily proof he's only using you for sex but it is likely.

[anon1111]

Yes, he likes you. You don't show a girl a picture of your c**k unless you want her to do something with it.

[Xoirwinkan]

It seems he already kinda knows, she telling him you like him is the best thing you can do, so he will take you seriously. Did you like his dick? Do you want to see it in person?

[Anonymous]

youre his best friend but he seems to love his best friend :P He asked about his instrument because he wants to know if its "good enough"... Why in the world do you think you have no chance with him ? If it was me, I'd never show off my gear unless I really really wanted her. Why would I for example tease a girl I have no interest in ? It doesn't make sense. In other words he dreams of working on you with his "picture". Do something to get him to express if he has anything for you :p He might try to not answer so get him back a bit to confront his fears. Because all he does but never asked you anything is that he is afraid of rejection. That's it.