Sure, those alpha guys are attractive, but they're not just attractive to YOU, but to lots of girls, and they know it, so most of them aren't going to give up other girls for you. It's too easy to get them, and there's too much temptation for them to say "no." That's why they don't want relationships.
The problem is that you keep fishing in the same bucket, and are surprised that you keep pulling in the same fish. If you want a "relationship guy", you need to fish elsewhere, and that's going to mean giving some non-alpha guys a chance.
The other two choices are: be FWB with the attractive alpha guys, and accept that they're going to be sleeping around, or remain sexually frustrated like you are. IMO, neither of these is a good solution, but they ARE choices.
Finding a guy who is interested in a relationship is going to give you much better results in the long run, though. You're just going to have to deal with the fact that they aren't going to be the alpha-type with the perfect bodies and "dangerous" personalities that younger girls find so attractive.0 0 0 0i have no sympathy for you. do you look at who your going after? but none of the ALPHA guys want that (less guys would chaise after me if I was easy)
your going after douche bags for the most part. lower your standards a bit and you'll find better guys. too many people think they are prime and should be held up on some pedestal when in reality they are average or maybe just a bit above. the're tons of nice guys looking for a great girlfriend but since you like the guys that just wanna fuk and chuck you have no luck. broaden your horizons and you'll find better guys. I used to be one of those guys and not that those guys are worse looking or anything they just don't always get out much or can be mistaken for losers. usually its the guys that you talk to on a daily basis that you could never think of liking that are the nice guys, the ones that listen to you complain about how lonely you are or how much of an ass hole that guy was.0 0 0 0I've done that before.. I ended up getting board out of my mind and breaking the poor guys heart, I don't want to hurt someone or get hurt ... I'm actually very naturally attractive not one of those so so girls.. The guys come after me.. Most of the hot guys I date aren't as good looking as I am but I'm not so... Shallow..I like a natural attractive guy.. They seem like they want a relationship but really they're just trying to win me over..I go for the hot corky guy.. Not the bar hopping pig..
well...im not trying to be rude with my answer. I just don't sugar coat things. if you are as good looking as you think you are and lots of guys are approaching you then that's your biggest problem. most guys with enough balls to go up to you are gonna be a**holes, they do it all the time and are used to rejection and talking to attractive girls and know what to say. try initiating contact with the guy staring at you but not bold enough to come over and talk to you.
those guys are more humble and will probably be nicer and more for what your looking for and some of them still are good or decent looking and kinda dorky. that's more like me, I'm not that attractive, people usually rate me a 6/10. I rate myself a 5/10, I don't really approach women unless I'm out having fun with friends, and then its usually just for laughs. most times ill stare at a girl, smile or wink and hope she's got more balls than I do lol. very rarely do I approach a girl outside a bar.
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I'm kind of like that. I've always played by the rules. I'm 21, haven't even had a first kiss or a boyfriend. But the past couple years have been rough on me as far as sexual urges go.
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