Irrational fear of being kicked in the the testicles

[Anonymous]

I have this irrational fear of being kicked in the testicles, especially by a woman. I've had it all my life. How do I get rid of it? I guess no guy is exactly comfortable at the prospect , but the thoughts of it just makes me squirm. It's a really odd fear to have as it has never actually happened to me. The worst that has happened was being hit by a football at School (although in fairness my first crush was present at the time, so it was very embarrasing) It's not even a fear of the pain, as such, it's more the humiliation aspect that worries me? The thoughts of being helpless in front of other people, especially the women. It's obviously a really embarrassing thing to obsess about so I could never talk to anybody about it. What do I do?

[fairiez]

yes I totally understand your situation... I also have a constant fear of getting hit on my ass...

it did happened when I was a kid... you know guys playing and the ball hit my rear...

infact it happened recently I was walking down in park and a child was palying with his football, and BHAMMM! it hit my rear and there were these cute guys watching this enitre scene...

yes it was damn embarassing but I just smiled it of.

so just get over it... nothing to worry it won't happen... cause no women will intentionally kick you dere( if she is not pissed of at u). :)

[Haris198517]

hey fairiez,i have seen your answers on GaG.I like the way you answer question.I feel that I should tell you about this so that I mentioned you here.Your profile is private so I can't massage you.

[Anonymous]

I hear you man... I have an irrational fear of getting hit in the nose.. well its not too irrational, I got hit in the nose in every sport I played as a kid... what you have to do is always push yourself to get past this fear... maybe learn karate, idk...

[Asker]

This is turning out to be the oddest thread. I actually do Karate. You can imagine my reaction when we practice groin strikes ! (Especially when with a certain young lady - d'oh!).

[Winteredrose5162]

...did we chat about this? lol Your story sounds very familiar to someone I just spoke to.

[Asker]

Hi, no. I have never spoken to you. Maybe it's not an uncommon thing?

[Winteredrose5162]

Its SO similar! ha ha except it was a soccer ball. I don't think its an outlandish fear. I think I would have that fear if I was a guy. Also a lot of girls don't understand how painful it can be. My boyfriend said there was a sort of "bro code" to never hit each other there so maybe since girls will do it you're more afraid as well

[Asker]

Ha ha. I'm from the uk. Football = soccer. It's sounds like its too dangerous a sport !

[Winteredrose5162]

Ah I had forgotten!

[Blackwatch8494]

Just make sure you wear a jock and cup when you workout and play sports or do anything that could harm the "boys"! also don't piss off strong girls! or any girls for that matter because that's the first place they aim

[martyfellow]

Talk to a professional; clearly this relates tto some childhood trauma and you need to get over it, once and for all?

Either thatm or go through life wearing a cup, which would be uncomfortable.

[LovelyLace]

I have a "No genitals harming" policy. People need those and unless I'm being attacked its never going to happen.

[Bruno10]

I agree with not harming genitals but is ass slap genitals?