Are most women into anal? Why....why not?

What do most women have to see in a guy or feel about a guy to convince her he is worthy of penetrating her anus...is it a lust thing...does she have to trust him or for him to be her boyfriend for so long. What are the prerequisites if any? I'd imagine it is a lust thing and you do not have to be in love with the guy or even know the guy well to partake in the activity...true?
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  • Most aren't crazy about it, a few definitely are. Most girls I know have at least tried it to see what the fuss was all about. Some will tolerate it now and then for their partner's sake and others have nerve endings situated in a way that they really enjoy it.

    Many are curious enough to try it out ... I don't think it's a lust or love thing -- I'd say it's catching her in an experimental mindset and having trust that you won't physically harm her. I think that a guy who is open minded, regularly delivers sexual satisfaction and is not pushy probably gets more experimentation in the bedroom. Guys who whine, pout or push to get what they want in bed don't tend to get it very often or enthusiastically.

  • I don't know the statistics, but my guess is that the majority of women aren't that into it, considering that it can be quite painful. The "prerequisites" of having anal sex with a girl will vary hugely based on the individual and the situation. I would say it's definitely SMARTER to do it with someone you trust, since there are a lot of risks, but that doesn't mean girls make that choice.

    Personally, I would only ever consider having anal sex with a long-term partner who I trusted. I HAVE had anal sex in that situation, though, and I won't be doing it again- at least not for a very long time.

  • Never tried it, but I would like to.

    I don't see why not. I am really into doggy style and hair pulling from the back, so I guess anal would kind of do it for me. I suspect my boyfriend would like it too, tho I'm not sure how I'd bring the subject up.

    If I did let a guy go there, I'd have to trust him a lot (it's obviously something that had to be done carefully, and I would have to know that my partner would think about my comfort and not just about poking my stomach just because he felt good LOL).

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think anal sex is overrated. I have tried it with 2-3 girls and never enjoyed it much. You have to use a LOT of lube and go real slow for a while with shallow thrusts. The plus is that you get to come deep in her ass. The HUGE negative is that your peter smells like poop for hours or even days after no matter how many showers your take and how much you try and scrub it off. Believe me, I even tried soaking it in a bath. That sh*t is not funny.

  • how would you fell if someone stuck their penis in your anus. does that answer your question. there is no natural lube in the ass and to put it frankly the ass is not designed to take a penis. that being said it feels great for guys but it is usually horrible for the girl. please remember that everyone has an a**hole and few people want things going into it

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  • He would have to be my husband

  • not doing it. there's no reason for me to do it. I have a vagina asking for two holes. that's just greedy.

  • I do like anal based on some experimenting I've done on my own, but I wouldn't do it right away with someone. I'd want him to be a boyfriend and I'd need to feel completely comfortable with him. He'd need to be gentle and patient.

  • It has to be someone I really trust and I have to be absolutely comfortable with him.

  • no, auch.

  • I think anal demands a lot of trust, so if I did decide that I would like to do it, then it would have to be a long-term boyfriend borderline, husband.

  • most women Hate anal sex!

  • I have zero interest in doing that.

    How would you feel if there was a d*** inside your anus?

  • It is nasty. The anus is the dirtiest part of the body. I don't receive any pleasure from this, it just makes me feel really full. The only prerequisite I have is not to do it that way. If you want to do it up the a$$ then find yourself a guy who will accommodate you. I am sure there are plenty out there who will do this for you.

  • No, it's not fun for me.

  • i just don't really want to do it at this point the idea scares me I woud have to feel a lot of comfort and trust maybe if I liked and felt comfortable being sexual with him I'd giev it a tryto make him happy

  • I think you are correct.