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I'm addicted to sluts. They're just so good in bed. Anyone else have this problem?

I think I might have a little problem. And it's because of having many sexual partners, some of which are complete and utter sluts. Once I experienced these carnally talented women, regular girls just don't do it for me any more. Normal girls can't take a hard pounding. They complain about the pain. Some feel objectified when I assign them certain positions *cough* doggy. Others don't like to be called up just for a booty call and get hurt when I leave right after. Sluts don't take issue with any of these. They like their hair pulled, biting, and ALL of them absolutely love a hard, deep and rough pounding; which I cannot do without if I want to finish. And I refuse to date a slut and emotionally involve myself with such dirty creatures. So, you see my conundrum. Any advice would be helpful.
Date a slut. Maybe it will be fun.
Vote A
Continue to bang sluts until you find a girl who's a lady in the streets but a freak between the sheets
Vote B
Stop being a man-whore and settle for a nice girl, even if she's no freak in the bed
Vote C
Be a Tiger and bang sluts WHILE dating a nice girl
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I might have been spoiled by an ex who was incredible in bed and a nice girl - the whole package. She just loved sex and wasn't afraid to experiment. And boy could she take a hard pounding. Too bad we had a hurdle we just couldn't get over together. Need to find another one like her, I guess.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You need to separate the girls you date from the girls you bang (they are different types). Do you want a serious relationship right now? If so, find somebody that you connect with. If not then just go have sex! Who says you have to date somebody before you have sex with them? You don't. There's no point in doing so as it'll just lead to somebody getting hurt.

    First off you are going to attract people that are similar to you. So, if you don't like the way that sluts act maybe you shouldn't be a slut yourself. I'm just saying.

    Secondly, what's your definition of slut? There's nothing wrong with a girl that enjoys sex as much as you do there IS something wrong with a girl who doesn't respect you (goes and cheats on you and hurts you emotionally). Different people have different definitions of a "slut". Think about if you do the same thing that a "slut" does. If you do then you have no right to judge the girl for what she does just because she is a woman. That's sexist. You can't say it's okay for you to screw 15 girls but it's not okay for a girl to screw 15 guys.

    Think about what you're looking for. There are nice girls who like sex! Plenty of them! I think that you may be looking in the wrong places if you can't see that.

    • Thanks for taking the time to answer my question. I guess that I'm not sure what I want at this point. Women complain about how unfair it is that men are called studs when they sleep around, yet women get called sluts for the exact same behavior. It’s actually not a double standard though, because both scenarios are pretty different in terms of circumstances and consequences.

    • It is a double standard.

  • Honestly I think you just want to have some fun now, you don't really want connection with a girl, so when she complains of pain you get annoyed... if you kind liked the girl, you would make some effort..

    if sluts makes you quite happy, and at the end of the day if you feel like you are totally fine there is nothing missing, then its alright I guess...
    but if you are just lazy to be patient with a nice girl thennn you should think more...

    my ex didn't do any of what you like to do with your sluts... and I felt so annoyed that the sex was always boring, I had to break up to find real pleasure... and now I finally feel amazing on the bad, and Im not a slut lol...
    you can totally theach a girl how to be sluty on the bad and a normal girl around others...
    😉good lucky

  • i don't like any of your options. calling women sluts is rude and being a manwhore is nasty. I use to be a 'normal girl' as you called it. my boyfriend straight up called me boring in bed the first few times we hooked up. but as we fell more in love with each other I tried more things for him. and now I can handle most of the 'freaky' things you described and like to do with your 'sluts'. but I'm not a slut and never have been. just quit jumping from girl to girl. pick one you like and try it out, weather she be a 'normal girl' or a freak. that's my advice.

    • I like your experience. I'm working on training a girl right now who I devirginized a few weeks ago. She started to complain about pain while in some deep penetration positions. So I'm on the fence about how to deal with this. Should I bother trying to figure out if this can be fixed or just say f*** it and call up a slut. But I kinda like her so I might do them both concurrently.

Most Helpful Guys

  • If you like the sluts, just go with it. Just don't lead on a nice girl or try and make her a slut -_- it really pisses and screws over other guys who would like to be with a nice girl. If you can't f*** a girl cause she isn't a slut, move on. You don't HAVE to f*** everything you see. Grow up if that's your mindset. All I ask for from my fellow men. Same with women, don't go banging every guy and try and make a nice guy into an a**hole just cause you prefer the a**holes or whatever, but really wanna be with that one guy. Don't try and change others.

  • You doing just fine because I don't date the sluts; therefore, we equal each other out.

    • u mean you don't date sluts but will still bang them for what they're worth, right?

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  • no not really had such a problem , I wonder if maybe you need a stable relationship with just one person for a change ? over all these randoms

  • Find a guy, some guys love to bang each other hard and do not mind at all.

    • hahaha... thanks. Such great advice. I'll get right on that.

    • lol

  • To be honest no one can really tell who is good in bed or not, I think you are some form or creep and some sluts kinda just lie there and expect some $$$ from your wallet. Just don't date a f***ing prude because I can asure you some seemingly normal people can be good at it.

    • wtf are you talking about? Are you on acid, girl. Let's try that again; and try to write coherently this time.

    • Are you sure you wouldn't need your own advice?

  • bang whores. way better than sluts.

    • but they might have diseases. Plus they cost money. And there's no excitement about the chase. With whores, it's a sure thing.

  • mmmmm sluts

  • Sounds more like you're bragging and bitching rather than asking a question 😞

  • Be a Tiger and bang sluts WHILE dating a nice girl

  • "Any half-decent looking girl can get tonnes of guys too sleep with her by just walking down the street. A guy needs a good degree of skill (i.e game). A lock that can be opened by any key is a useless lock and of no value. But a key that can open many locks is a master key and is highly valued."

    no girl wants a key that many other girls has a copy off. its one thing to be in high demand but just like word gets around about a girl that is easy, us ladies talk too. and we know what guys have been out with what girl and I'll let you know right now. manwhore's no matter how hot, aren't desirable because they aren't relationship material. we want the guy all the girls want, not the guy all the girls have had.

    • not in my experience, girl. Have you read any game theory at all. None of the experts (Mystery, Sin, DeAngelo, etc) would agree with you. One of the cardinal rules is to never ask a girl for advice on what she looks for in a guy. They tell you what she ought to look for in a long term mate, not what attracts them to the guy.

    • well I'm not attracted to sluts but I guess I can't speak for all girls.

  • you can be a man whore but you don't want to date a whore?

    • Any half-decent looking girl can get tonnes of guys too sleep with her by just walking down the street. A guy needs a good degree of skill (i.e game). A lock that can be opened by any key is a useless lock and of no value. But a key that can open many locks is a master key and is highly valued.

    • i wouldn't call that highly valued lol

    • Oh my god, that is the most hilarious excuse for sleeping around I've ever heard. Anyway, most of the time girls notice when a guy's sleeping around. You missed the whole point of "The Game" if you're going to use that as your backup here. Did you notice the only women in the book that he really, really liked weren't okay with his sleeping around? By the end that was the whole point.

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  • Honey, you apparently ARE a slut.

    Regardless, there are plenty of girls that don't sleep around but are experienced in bed and into rougher, more exciting sex. It just may take some time to find one who appeals to you both emotionally and sexually.

  • From a female perspective I would say that I sort of like manwhores for the same reasons.

    • damn straight girl!

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