Really freaky things to do in bed?

Can I get some suggestions for freaky things to do in bed? I've searched but most of the stuff I've found is *really* bland. I'm looking for suggestions on actual kinky stuff here not just anal. Any suggestions? I'm trying to put together a 12 days of Christmas type thing for my guy
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No ass play allowed on his side (he has a phobia of anything near or in his ass). I'll take anything in mine though (he loves anal and rimming).
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  • Hmm... some suggestions, you could try these...

    Fantasy roleplay

    Rimming

    Threesomes

    Pegging

    Ball gags

    Mouth rings

    Cock rings

    Bondage

    S&M

    Erotic asphyxiation (Be VERY careful)

    Water sports

    Bath houses

    Nipple clips

    Butt Plugs

    Flogging

    Cutting

    Sensory deprivation

    Saline injections

    Speculums

    Feathers

    That's all that come to mind, off the top of my head, if I think of anything else, I'll add to the list. How's that so far?

    • Pegging, bath houses, water sports, cutting and butt plugs are all out of question. I think I may consider the sensory deprivation though (although it's such an obvious choice we haven't done it in a while). A couple of questions though. Do **** rings help with the feeling or does it just hold an erection for longer? What's sexy about speculums? (I'm sure he'd love to look in there just for fun but I think it'll be more educational than sexual right?)

    • y'see, I can come up with things FAR more screwed up than the stuff I suggested. There are some royally screwed up fetishes out there. However you just shot down a quarter of the stuff I put down. And here you were asking for really freaky things. Still, not like I blame you for ruling out water sports. (ew) As for speculums, some people get off on that. Some like the look inside, yes, though some like the idea of something holding one of those holes open so that anything can go in there.

    • Cutting and asphyxiation are both dangerous, so be very careful about those ones, if you ever feel kinky enough to consider them. As for c*ck rings. I find they don't really help with the sensation, and they're more uncomfortable than anything else (for the guy) based on my own experiences. Yeah it generally just makes the erection last longer, and in some cases makes the erections a little bigger. You can also get rings with vibrators attached, to add sensation for both of you.

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  • Which one of you plans to be the dominant one?

    Ropes, chains, blindfolds, gags, whips, collars, leashes, clamps, dildos, vibrators, and at least two people who know how to use them.

    • Most of that stuff is used regularly with us (I never thought of the collars and leashes though.. those may be interesting if he complies to use them). I'm not sure if he'd feel comfortable having me on a leash although I'd be up for it. I'm looking for 2 girls to invite in (I already know one will since she has asked me to join in with her before) but I'm not sure if I know another girl who'd be open to having a foursome.

    • Trying to exhaust your man? LOL most guys are done after one or two. If you manage to get a small group of people going how about doing a boarding school or harlem roleplay? He is the headmaster and the girls are the students (if you get enough girls you can be headmistress alongside him). The possibilities here are really endless, it just comes down to what can you pull together. Have you ever thought about really hardcore bondage like on devicebondage.com?

    • I've never tried anything that hardcore (wouldn't the tools be pretty expensive? I'm trying not to spend too much on this). We're not really into pain (moreso pleasure). I'm all for being tied up and "punished" but I'd rather it not hurt (same with him. he'll tolerate a little pain but it's not really on his list of things to do)

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  • The best and freakiest thing to do in bed is not being in bed or the bedroom in 1st place ;) - let's begin with that and then answer after knowing from you as to what are both your dislikes in 1st place :D

    • We rarely ever do it in bed. I just used that phrase because it seemed to be the easiest to use. We frequently have public sex (he likes that very much). He doesn't like anything near or in his butt (but he's the complete opposite when it comes to me. He loves rimming me and anal). Neither one of us really like pain but I do like to be tied up and pleasured

  • you will not find really freaky on here. and if you could the prudes and censors would take the fun out of it. message. might be able to fill in 6 days at least.

    • Tell you what. I promise that *I* will not delete any answer to this question, or this question itself. So long as nobody posts anything that is straight up blatant p*rnography. If it's educational, I'll leave it alone.

    • toban, I appreciate your sentiment. but others will not appreciate the candid response from me. but there is no way to answer this without offending some prude. then report. which always ends up with removed. just my experience. no anger. not my thing. just find another way. hey dude. you can message if you want. later.

  • daaang other girls should takw notes

  • 12 different positions
    12 different new places
    12 different new items to play with
    Let your imagination go

  • Is it him or you that doesn't like watersports?

    • I'll talk to him about it. I think if we tried it then it would be more of a fun thing and less of a sexual one (similar to the speculum idea previously suggested)

    • Ok..you sound really cool to me.(:(:(:

    • I am so totally into pee. But my girlfriend ripped off a speculum from her doctor one day..I did not ask her for that and sort of turned me off . (the theft I mean) ..was interesting to see her cervix though..wow

  • Try lubeing your finger and putting it in his ass during oral. It felt great when my girlfriend did that to me and made the orgasm great.