I hate to say it but you need to find someone who's into not having sex if you want a relationship where you don't have sex. That's not going to be easy but there are a few of them even here.
It's not a no action = bye girl thing either. It's the economics of sex at work. You're competing for attention with women who are offering more than your values will allow you to offer. Once the guy hears "I'm not going to sleep with you", one of the main things motivating his interest in you as opposed to other women goes away.
I'd suggest a christian dating service. GAG has an add for one that sometimes pops up.0 0 0 0Ha ha, I swear waaaay too much to go on a Christian dating site. I used to want to wait for marriage, but once I got in the real world, I think I'd wanna have sex, BUT in a commited exclusive relationship. Sex is given out like candy nowadays and I have too much pride in myself to sleep with every guy I meet. I just wanna know how to keep them interested in me for me, not just my vagina.
Be their friend first. As a girl, you can un-friend zone someone. We guys can't do it but you can.
Oh I know, my parents told me that. This one was a friend, but I still made out with him and he fingered me. But I guess the distance and probably no sex=lost interest? I don't know, I try for friends, but I do like making out. I think I'm just not meant to have someone like me more than a friend. There was this other guy, but he's being a total ass right now.
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Pretty much you stated the main issue in your second paragraph, males are dull creatures if you are not putting out then they will move on to a different sex provider.
You are not weird, the situation is they are only interested in sex for the most part.0 0 0 0But how can you keep them interested without saying, "Here, lets have sex." I don't want to be used, I would feel like sh*t and I don't want to go through that.
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