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Girls, what do you think of "growers, not show-ers"?

it's the weirdest thing to me. when erect I'm almost 8 inches, probably 5-6 inches in girth, so I have no problem or confidence issues with it. most girls have been pretty impressed. but when I'm flaccid, it looks the same as it did when I was a kid. for the longest time, I WAS self conscious, because it seemed like it never grew during puberty. maybe I'm being thrown off and it grew along with the rest of my body proportionally. I'm a fairly big guy (6'2), so maybe it just looks smaller on me than if I was 5'8. but when I wear pants I get little to no "package effect." I remember changing in the locker room in junior high (early 90s, still in the tightie whities era, lol) and some of the other guys looked like they were smuggling half the produce section, lol. meanwhile I had a handful of grapes. I kept waiting for it to grow, but it never did. but when I hook up with girls, they only see me at full attention. I get a lot of compliments, one girl called me "porno c*ck", and I slept with an old friend from high school once in my 20s, and afterward she says "dude...your pen!s is huge. I hope you know that." at the end of the day, I guess that's what matters, but I still gotta wonder. 8 inches is a blessing, but flaccid I'm like 3 inches long, maybe an inch and a half around, with balls the size of small to medium sized eggs that don't hang too far from my body. so ladies, what's the call on this? I imagine you'd only be concerned with what it's like hard, right? but are you ever like "wow, this guy has really small balls?" lolol...or do you not care about how he fills out a pair of pants? just curious.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • That's exactly how my boyfriend is (about the size of my thumb when soft.. the size of my wrist when hard). I personally don't care how small it is when it's soft. I think it's kind of cute! I also don't care how a guy fills out a pair of pants. I don't go around staring at crotches all day.

    Next time you get head from a girl if you can keep it soft before she goes down on you ask her to suck it while it's small. It's the coolest feeling when it grows in your mouth (at least to me. I like actually being able to fit my boyfriend in my mouth for about 10-15 seconds before he grows to real size).

    • Good hint about the growing thing! Would love to experience that :)

  • Not a bother. Probably more comfy for you to wear cute somewhat-skinny jeans too! I feel so bad for some guys! Grower's are even better than shower's I think, personally. I guess, (sorry for the bad analogy) it's like a bag of mixed jelly beans-you can either have the box with one kind in it and you know exactly what your getting (showers) or you can have a bag with all sorts of flavors, and be pleasantly surprised (growers) :)

    • JUST SAY "NO" TO SKINNY JEANS! hahaha...

    • Okay, some skinny jeans look prety nice on guys. Not the super tight ones, but the slim fit, still kinda baggy ones!

  • It wouldn't bother me at all. I think all guys are growers to some extent. If you are in relationship it really wouldn't matter.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Buddy you are one of the lucky ones who's got a large enough penis and not so large that you can just take pics of it and not satisfy yourself. Why are you so concerned about how big or small it is when flacid, the utility as well as impression comes up only when it's erect and you are gifted in that area ;). I'm in full agreement with what the anonymous lady has said "That's exactly how my ..."

    Also I think women enjoy more of growers than showers :D - personal experience lol

  • If a girl has gotten far enough to be looking at your stuff then it doesn't matter as long as you make her happy.

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  • they are weird

  • I don't really care if a guy is that

  • It doesn't bother me. My fiance is the same and I don't care. At the end of the day it's not the size of the package it's how you use it.

  • I think I am more concern when is erected. Not so much concern on the filling out of jeans. I would have a sense of achievement if I am made it hard, it will be like a surprise.

    • yeah, I remember the best day of my life was when I realized that when people were talking about penis size, they meant WITH a boner. probably should have figured that from the get-go, but what do you want? I'm blond, hahaha.

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