What do men think of pushover women?

[Anonymous]

what do men think of pushover women? when it comes to relationships, friendships, sex?

[MrOracle]

The only people who like them are the abusers who want a ready victim, and it's no surprise that such abusers have keen senses that allow them to find this type of girl easily, and the girls are often just as attracted to the abusers.

Normal, healthy guys don't like a pushover girl anymore than girls like pushover guys. It shows a lack of confidence and self-worth, which are unattractive qualities to those looking for a real relationship of relatively "equal" partners.

[Anonymous]

I feel like a lot of "pushover" women are the ones who are afraid of being assertive and telling you what they want or how they feel, so they give you "hints" and expect you to guess. Ain't nobody got time for that. From what I've seen, it doesn't make them happy, either.

[Opinion Owner]

Though I do realize that women who are more direct also run the risk of being called a bitch, but if that's what being a bitch is, then most men are bitches too.

[peace-love-couture]

No one likes a pushover, except when you want to get something out of someone

In this instance, pushover women are great if sex is what you're looking for because they'll likely give in...

Also, the pushover thing is often something predators(abusers) can sense. If they have to groom a girl--fine. But if they can find a girl who will let sh*t slide already, even better

[Anonymous]

I don't like pushover guys so I think guys would be the same. it is nice for someone to speak their mind and not hold back, it means they have trust in the relationship and have confidence.

[Asker]

pushover guys are seen as effeminate though...so I don't know if it'd be the same. thanks though :)

[peace-love-couture]

Being a pushover isn't a feminine trait, that's just a trait of someone who doesn't have enough guts to stick up for themselves when necessary

[WoIIie]

Hell no for all 3.

[Meedo]

it is not as bad as push over guys. However we want you to voice your opinion . its more fun that way .

[temptationfalls]

Don't like them. I like girls that stand up for themselves.

[Anonymous]

well a lot of guys will tolerate, put up with a push-over girl, but never the other way around