Why are guys so controlled by boobs and female bodies in general?

[Anonymous]

When guys see boobs they go crazy. Some guys like asses, some like both. But why are guys so controlled by them? It's like I can just show my pair of breasts to you and you follow like a meek little lamb behind me... don't guys realize how weak that sorta makes them? Like it's just ironic how they pretend to be these big and strong (not just physically) but yet fall for a girls body and or let it control their thoughts constantly. I've seen this in real life, I've seen this one the internet. When a girl posts naked or in a bikini heaven forbid guys are drooling. I mean REALLY? It's kinda pathetic. Not saying you can't like these things but majority of guys have a obsession with it. It's really like their little tiny puppies and you can throw the bone and they'll follow, as long as you're naked and have a decent body.

[Married-in-PA]

First of all, Mlle., I need to identify myself (Logan's Run), as a Shameless Ass Man.

Seconldly, we can't help it. GOD himself ordained that you (women) were made for us men, and that we should find you attactive. It's not our fault, entirely, anyway. God DID say, "take Eve", but he didn't say "take Eve from behind, alot". That's the Devil talking. And I am not even that religious...LOL

In any case, breasts do nothing for me, Mlle. They are like Sun roofs on cars; completely optional equipment. I am much more intereted in your bumper cheeks.

[lv4lv]

We're programmed to. Simple enough. Nature, the universe, ect. Made us this way. Lots of males sure do - and they're usually sexually frustrated.

Every aspect of attraction (Outside of fetishes) comes from a natural sense of a good child-bearer. Hips, breasts, stomach, ect. Are all signs (physically of course) of a good child-bearer.

Do you never feel sexual attraction?

[LexiNinja]

I don't think it's so much a "controlling" thing. I think a guy can like a woman intellectually and mentally but also physically too. Men admire a woman's body. And same thing goes for women. If a woman is intentionally exposing herself purely for the sole purpose of attention by sending nude pictures of herself or dressing provacative. Of course you're going to attract the guys who are only after your body. Don be mad when that happens because you put yourself in that situation. Period.

[Anonymous]

They're wired that way. And despite what they say, no gender is stronger mentally than the other. We're all "emotional", just with different emotions taking center stage. An important one for men being lust.

[Asker]

Yes I agree

[Married-in-PA]

Lust is for younger men; as we get older this develops into Wisdom. But this takes a while...

[kheserthorpe]

link

[Cottoncandydreams]

men are pigs sometimes

[Asker]

Yep tell me about it

[kheserthorpe]

Because most guys are very sexually frustrated.

That's why guys become players, pretend to be disinterested, and try to set up multiple FWBs. Then they aren't sexually frustrated, don't act weak, and consequently get laid -more-.

The only way for guys to not be 'obsessed' by sex is to get as much as they want.

[KingsOfleon88]

The female body is a beautiful thing. This dates back centuries as it has always been that way.

[Asker]

True but it's just funny at the same time.

[TheBattMan]

We're controlled by it to a degree just like anything else. If you show us breasts and say jump off a cliff, I'll laugh in your face. If you show us breasts and say walk over there, I'll walk over there. It's a very minor power I assure you. Now sex is another matter..

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Well yeah many great men have fallen due to women I mean the flesh is one weakness we bare.

[Asker]

Guys just seem to have this weakness in ample amounts.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

If we didn't there would be plenty of trouble.

[Dragan]

Not all men are the same. Visually is important, but not that much. For me, the important emotional connection and visual.

[Anonymous]

Women just don't find men attractive. They'll never understand

[Anonymous]

Lol.

Got to see boobs? Check.

Got to see some ass? Check.

Didnt have to do anything to see it? Check.

Whos playin who?

[Anonymous]

Well, are you jealous? Your description sure does sound like so.

The only ones controlled by that are the suckers that are controlled by their hormones.

[Asker]

I don't understand what there's to be jealous about ?

[Opinion Owner]

Typically these sort of rants are fueled by jealousy over others' bodies from unhappy and bitter women. Not saying you are, just noting this is what the question comes off as.

[Asker]

This is a question about why guys are so obsessed with bodies. Not with some girl's bodies... I'm talking most bodies in general. Has nothing to do with my body. I'm pretty happy with mine, I just wonder why guys are so obsessed with it... nothing more and nothing less.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I understand what the question is about, not quite sure you got the point of my comment though. And if you're happy with your own body, great.

[Anonymous]

Testosterone. That about sums it up for you.

[Anonymous]

Meh, if one pair of boobs wants me to follow them like a lost puppy then I'll say "screw it" and find another pair to look at.

[Asker]

This doesn't even make sense. You're still a lost puppy either way.

[Opinion Owner]

The point I'm trying to make is that your boobs or ass isn't all that unique and special and while it does give you a bit of power, you'd be a fool to think that all guys would do anything to see them.

[Asker]

But they still think about it... and not just mine. I'm talking about MINE here. I'm talking about boobs and ass in general!

[Asker]

NOT talking about mine here

[Opinion Owner]

Of course we think about it. We're genetically programmed to try and bang everything with boobs and a vagina. But in general, there's a very low limit on what a guy will do (normally) to see a pair of boobs. Especially now when all we have to do to see boobs is go online or to a strip club. I could flip the logic here. It's amusing to see girls wearing heels they can barely walk in, clothes they can't breathe in, skirts during blizzards, just to get attention from men.