If size doesn't matter than why are dildos all bigger than the average guy?

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Bam. Truth right there^^. Penis size matters. They also never sell "small dildos" (unless its meant for anal pleasure ). So why do women keep claiming it doesn't.. it obviously matters. Even look at what most say if the were to ever get in a one night hookup situation "whats the point if he isn't hung" "he had a small penis/tells all friends" ect.I am getting penile enlargement surgery February 2nd. The people I've told whom I was looking to support me, seem to act like stupid ass morons. Like okay there, its perfectly fine for a woman to get cosmetic surgery but god forbid a man does, oh knoes! "he isn't a real man anymore" "real men do don't do  ___"  "except the way you were born because a man isn't allowed to improve yourself in anyway " ect. I've already made my decision, I will do what makes me happy and more confident with myself.Does penis size matter, I personally think it does don't you?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Er... I'm only slightly larger than 6", and my girlfriend has several toys that are smaller than me, most of which she had before we met.

In my experience, I'd say 6" is probably about the average size of a decent dildo, once you account for accouterments (rabbit stimulators, etc). She's got one basic vibe that's about 7.5", but when she's using it on herself, she never pushes it in more than halfway anyway.

I'd say penis size matters, but only insomuch as it simply needs to be big/thick enough to get the job done, and apart from that, any insecurities you have are on you. Don't go around blaming women for your bullsh*t.

G_GTom · Accepted Answer

I look at this differently. Yes size can matter and quite a few women are size centric. The best one ever is size doesn't matter if I'm with him/I love him. Of course it does. You don't change your preferences because you meet someone. They are just willing to deal with his size to get other things. Is that a position you want to be in?

This is not a situation I would want to be in, but, at the same time, I wouldn't risk endangering myself to please someone else. Instead I would and do only date women who fit my size. Women with larger vaginal capacity can go find that big they like.

Godhuntress · Accepted Answer

I voted B. No penis has given me an orgasm before, because for me it's all about the clitoris. However penises are still able to make me feel good. I don't imagine that a very small one could do that, but I haven't experienced anything but too large for me. So while the size not so essential for me personally, I think a medium one is the best bet. Dildos can go to hell if it's up to me, it's the owner of the penis that makes me feel good about the penis, not the thing itself.

PoeticNinja · Accepted Answer

Yes, size matters to an extent.

You can't do certain positions with a small/big penis. Also, it depends on how well he uses it. For an example, if I had a guy who was 5" do the hip rolling during missionary, it wouldn't be as good if a guy who was 8" were to do it.

- I used to think size didn't matter... But when you had various sizes, you know what feels good.

Megalove · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I've got toys. Most of which, I consider too big. I kind of go on the use half of it program... Now, big goes both ways, though. LENGTH...really, you don't need much. A womans anatomy is not made to fit ten inches of ANYTHING in there. Girth is different, it feels wonderful when a guy stretches you just right. So, length not so much, thickness, yess.

Perfuctory · Accepted Answer

If I love someone enough, the size of his penis won't matter. I don't think man OR woman should have to get cosmetic surgeries, but I would totally support someone if it would make them feel better, boost their self-esteem, and give them more confidence. If it will make you feel better, than don't take shame in it~

ImSoSozzled · Answer

Ok then let me ask you this: if girls have these "perfectly sized" toys and machines that can do things that are impossible for a human, what do they need men for?

Maxen92 · Answer

Here's the deal.

If a girl have SERIOUS feelings for you (in other words, in love with you).

I promise you, she will more than likely adore your penis as it is.

But if you want to increase your d*** size in order to "gain" confidence, go ahead.

To me, increasing d*** (or boob size) is pretty pointless.

All you are doing is changing the spectrum of "keyholes", if you know what I mean.

I'm glad I don't need a surgery as I'm confident with my (average) package as it is.

kheserthorpe · Answer

The useable length on the most common size is very very close to average.

madhatters4 · Answer

the only reason I am really down on male enhancement surgery is that is simply isn't as reliable as other cosmetic procedures (not even close).  I trust you are aware of the complications, and risks associated with this procedure.  Good luck!

WoIIie · Answer

Well you've certainly made up your mind. What if your snot became mustard? Ever wonder that?

kairon156 · Answer

your 2nd part reminds me of something I seen on FB. "fake boobs, fake tan, fake nails... now you want a real man?"

Cantremember · Answer

If the size is all that is to you as a man then yes, you lose to a dildo. But you already made up your mind and everyone of different opinion is a stupid begin moron. So what's your question again?

TheGodEmperorLeto · Answer

A lot of dildos are larger because they have to be to actually give em stimulation. But, ya, as stated, the average one used is around average length of a d***. And there are many women that use things smaller, but vibrate.

Panqueque · Answer

Honestly as long as I like the guy I'm with and it feels good I could really care less, and yes there are dildos that are small that are for "vaginal" use. Plus it's not the size that matters but the motion of the ocean, and different positions feel better for us as women, so just having more sex and becoming more familiar with the woman your having sex with and you should be fine. If you want to get a surgery do it, if it makes you feel better all the power to you. (:

Anonymous · Answer

one of my EX girl friends was going to buy a new dildo and we were talking about it and she ended up getting one as close to the size of my d*** as she could fine which I thought was really nice of her. :)