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My boyfriend watches p*rn with girls who have big butts?

With girls with big butts and my butt isn't big. It's not flat and he's said I have a "bubble butt" but since my butt isn't big I'm insecure. Should I dump him? Will you please bad mouth big butts like you do everything else to make me feel secure? I know you do this with weight and breast size, can you please do the same? thanks
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I know you all put down other body types to make insecure skinny girls or insecure over weight girls feel better. And you also put down big breasts or small breasts to make insecure girls feel better. Can you please do the same to me? Will you please white knight me now? thanks
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I know this may sound insensitive in the beginning but I do like larger and rounded butts in women, curvier the better. Again but when it comes to breasts I prefer smaller ones anyday to bigger ones :)

    However, that doesn't mean that I'll fall in love with a woman after seeing if she's got a butt or breast size that I like - never have. it's a different thing altogether. If you like a hunk and your boyfriend isn't one are you going to love him any less?, the same goes here.

    A bubble butt is again a very attractive thing to my eyes and believe it there are lots like me around. I'm sure you got a cute butt and I won't say a pic would have helped :D - honest.

    I'd say there's no reason to feel insecure, partner him in his likes if you can (not overboard though), helps strengthen a relationship and yet if you think women with larger bottoms make you insecure, I'd recommend you increase your size ;) - no pun intended.

    TONS of women run around trying to 'get a smaller and preferrably bubble butt' so that talks about the majority men's liking ;) :D so guess what you have is the one actually more in demand

  • https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=sni55NW3tTo



    That's how I imagined responding to this question in my head lol..."Shut up, Alyssa"

    • :)

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  • When he's watching that p*rn he's in his sexual "fantasy land", NOT reality necessarily. The reality is that he chose to be with you & you chose to be with him for reasons way beyond the size of your butt, (or his penis, for that matter). If he just wanted to be with a girl with a big butt then I imagine he'd be with one-- plus if that was his priority then you wouldn't want to be with him in the first place. Stop worrying.

    As long as he isn't cheating on you, can either let him enjoy his fantasies online as an occasional outlet. Or if it's something you can't deal with in your relationship, or believe is wrong for him to look at, then you need to talk to him about it. Either way, just realize his sexual preference for bigger butts in his "perfect/fantasy world" has no impact on how he loves you in the "real world".

  • You can't go dumping every guy, because you feel insecure from the p*rn they watch. Hell, you would have a hard time finding a guy that didn't watch p*rn or at least that watches p*rn that doesn't make you feel that way. By the way, I thought you wanted to slim down in the leg and butt area?

  • If its not on gag than its not true :P... Since you have an insecurity than I think you should cut your loses

    • They're coming along, don't worry

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  • Dammit, I know I left my armor around here somewhere. Anyone seen my sword and joust?

    • Your butt is just fine. I'm personally attracted to butts on the smaller side. A bit of bubble is great, but I've never been into huge Coco-sized cabooses.

    • I know you are, this is the internet. Guys on here like pancake asses over real asses

  • Nice round bubble butts are the best. Big butts are nice, and flat butts are fine, but bubble butts pwn them all.

    I'm not telling little white knight lies either.

  • Holy sh*t. Calm the f*** down.

    Men are GENETICALLY PROGRAMMED to look for breasts and butts etc.

    If your dating a man that judges your romantic potential by those features alone, find a new man (easier said then done I know...)

    One thing I cannot stand is when women act like the dating system is completely and utterly just against them.

    Men have issues too. For example, most women leave a man that gets "too attached" IE: he just likes the f***ing girl.

    Most men have to put up a front of being a carefree a**hole to get some loving these days.

    Women have no idea how f***ing emotionally draining that sh*t becomes. And then they wonder why their boyfriends don't express their feelings anymore...

    reality TV has destroyed dating.

    Stop acting like a girl, and become a lady. It's not hard. You just have to want to do it.

    I used to be one of those guys that all girls say they really wanted to date (emotional without wearing my heart on my sleeve, nice but not a pushover, dominant but not domineering, chivilrous etc etc etcc) etc, and you know what? I was a virgin just as long as I was that guy. I put up a bullsh*t a**hole front and I, for the first time in my life, had OPTIONS.

    Most men have to do that, because they HAVE NO CHOICE. You wanna know why? Because the system is rigged against us too! I cannot tell you how many really awesome nice guys I know (that would honestly treat a women wonderfully) that haven't gotten p**** in years because women are too busy giving it to all the "alpha male" a**holes that legitimately don't give a f*** about them at all unless their clothes are decorating their bedroom floor.

    Stop crying about your insecurities on the internet, grow a pair (figurative), and come back when you've chilled out.

    • Lulz

    • lmao

    • You must be new here

  • Erm, I like big butts and I cannot lie... The white knights can do their thing, but a lady with A+T is my cup of tea. Your guy has good taste too because a bubble butt is definitely on the more attract side of the scale

  • I actually like small cute butts, but why does that matter? P*rn is p*rn and life is life.

    When my girlfriend watches basketball, the guys there are taller than me, but I don't worry that she secretly wants to date a tall athletic guy that can shoot a basket from 30 feet. If I walked in on my girlfriend (suppose I had one) watching p*rn, she'd probably be watching guys with huge penises, but that doesn't mean she doesn't like mine.

    It sounds to me like you worry too much.

    • I know, you and every dude on the interwebz like a flat butt("small cute butts)

    • Thinking back, almost every girl I slept with fits this definition.

    • I'm sure

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  • I'd suggest you slim down your thighs so your butt visually looks bigger in comparison.

    :)

    • considering you never actually answer my questions, this is a pretty sh*tty answer

    • I actually try, you just don't like what I say. I continue to assert - extreme long duration cardio is the only reliable way to trash muscle tone.

    • Because other people on here have told me otherwise Anyways, I won't take advice from here because I realize y'all try to f*** up my results because of y'alls own personal preferences

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  • Sorry I am too busy anguishing the fact that my girlfriend is bisexual and girls do not have hairy legs. Woe is me!

  • Please for the love of cupcakes have this women be trolling

    • Deadpool! XD

    • Yo

  • be proud of your pancake ass :P

    your boyfriend sounds like a terrible person you should shoot him for being so rude mean and inconsiderate.

    • lol @ the 4th & 5th guys @last update you forgot to add "please no rude or judgmental answers"

    • I did. I didn't want rude or judgmental answers. thanks for the tip!

  • I keep telling that watching p*rn is bad for a relationship. There are many kinds of beauty, because you do not need to be insecure. Love, passion and excitement should not depend only on the body. The brain is the most important sexual organ, it feels all.

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    take your pick. I like the first

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      this one also needs to be on here

    • LOL people on here aren't really defensive about race. In fact, since most are from Europe or Canada they're a little, less knowledgable and worldly

    • i just liked that cool tshirt and bitchin blazer combo haha

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