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My girlfriends family is nudist?

My girlfriends family is nudist and her parents are very open sexually. They rarely wear clothes at their house. My other gfs and me hang out there a lot in the summer because we can tan nude and not have to worry about getting caught. We tan there a few times a week all summer, and her parents join us a lot of the time. Problem is, her dad has an erection almost the whole time. He just walks around with it sticking out and a few times I've caught him touching himself when he thought we were sleeping or had our eyes closed. I understand seeing me and my gfs is probably a turn on for him, but I've noticed him looking at his daughter too. Is this normal for a nudist? I always heard that at nude beaches the guys don't get hard. to be honest, it's kind of a turn on because he's pretty hot for an older guy, just not sure if he's a perv or what.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I dated a girl for about 5 years, I met her in college and she didn't mention that she was a nudist, I did notice no tan lines when we were nude, but I sorta assumed she had a more tan complexion. After we had dated a few months I traveled with her to meet her family and stay at their place, they had a pool and I was looking forward to swimming while we were there.

    Before we went she would giggle about things like how many clothes I packed, considering I took more to wear than she did, only after we were almost to their home did she tell me they were nudists, to be honest I wasn't happy she kept it from me and considered going home, she calmed me down and told me she had only kept it from me so I wouldn't worry and be nervous about it before we went, and urged me to go even if I stayed dressed.

    Once we were there I found they were all very nice, polite, and when nude I felt awkward at first but they made me feel so at home and at ease once I undressed. It was far from anything sexual, at times talk of sex went on but more in fun date type talk, and if sex went on it was in private. So my experience around nudists was enjoyable and not much different than being around a clothed family.

  • This is crazy.

    If you are a nudist... I think it's perverted. I have nothing against nudity but to make a lifestyle out of it makes me think you just like to watch naked people. Tanning is literally the only reason I can think of to go fully nude in public.

    Even if you are a nudist, having loads of twentysomething girls naked around your house is beyond creepy. Walking around with an erection... What do you want me to say. Nudity obviously affects him more than any nudist would claim.

    If my daughter were to prance around nude at some older dudes house I would kick the living sh*t out of him.

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  • I mean nudists don't use clothes so. So if his daughter wore clothes and he looked at her the same way you wouldn't think anything of it. Nudity are their "clothes" persay. So them staring at each other naked isn't as weird as it would be for people who wear clothes.

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  • Yes, it's not a normal thing for nudists to get turned on any more easily than people with clothes on.

    He's definitely got a fixation thing for younger girls. Watch out, a nudist Jerry Saville!

  • I think it's just a right. Your girlfriend might have a really attractive body and it's turning him on.

    Not really a perv, but it's just their nature.

    • she has a gorgeous body, and I'm sure she does turn him on, but he has 3 other hot naked girls to look at. why would he look at her?

  • I don't think you need to worry about it as long as he isn't touching you or the other girls. He can't help it if he sees you and gets hard.

  • It's fine.

  • lol you are turning straight because of that man
    But let me say what the hell is wrong with that family?

  • Guys get hard at nude beaches way too often. If he's touching himself looking at his own daughter he's one hell of a pervert but otherwise it's probably kind of normal.

  • Open nudity within families and with friends is normal and natural. Erections are normal also. Each has to decide for themselves.

  • ive always wanted to be a nudist. to be able to just be naked all the time. its normal for men to get hard ons when seeing naked women. I think you will be fine.

  • We are nudist at home too. Wife and stepdaughter. Sister and niece. I get hard they all love it.

  • And when I thought I've seen everything

  • It's perfectly normal. We are nudists at my home too and our son and daughters friends hang out too and I get rock hard too. I do the same when I see my girls too and when i see my son get hard bc his sisters are There or their friends. Things happen all the time. Would you fuck him?

  • Her dad is harmless, but he is a perv.

  • Not normal if he gets turned on by his daughter.

  • No, it's not normal. It would be considered just as weird and icky at a nudist resort, if a guy walked around looking at girls with a boner the whole time. He could be ejected from the resort for behavior like that.

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