Should I feel insecure about my dark vagina?

Well everyf***ingbody is making it sound like darkness is terrible so do they expect every female, with all of our different skin tones to spread our legs and have white pink p*ssies? Am I supposed to feel sh*tty about my womanhood because it's not a couple of shades off of this background here? My vagina is dark. Does that make me less of a woman? Does that make me less sexually divine? Wtf does this world want from us women? Putting so much damn pressure on us >:( and I'm sorry I asked anon yet blocked anon users but this is a personal, touchy topic for me. I can't take being insulted on this.
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I got insecure for a moment, like every other human being on this planet, so big thanks to the people who came here uplifting me and encouraging me to be happy about what I've got :)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I've always said vulvas are like snowflakes - no two are alike. That's one of the things I like about them, they're diverse. There's always new shapes and colors and textures and every girl has her own personal variation on the same divine theme. I don't think of one p**** as better than another. They're just different, each having it's own unique charm.

    It's unfortunate that the crankiest people are the loudest and the words that sting are the ones that stay with you and eventually, you lose sight of the forest for the trees. There is an abundance of men out there who will gladly love and cherish your p**** and delight in making you feel sexy but all it takes is one stupid a**hole who wants to compare your vulva to a paint swatch to make you feel incredibly bad about yourself.

  • A vagina is A Vagina, ANY MAN, Who ever rejects a vagina based off its texture obviously is either an a**hole or a strange person.

    As long as it doesn't smell & it works, What does a man have to complain about? I've never seen an ugly vagina based off its color/texture, that thought doesn't even cross my mind.

    So overall, No, You shouldn't feel insecure about your vagina.

    • Thanks for BA

    • Sorry! :o I accidently moved my hand at the wrong time and gave someone else BA :( You still got the points and have ba in my mind :)

    • no problem =]

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  • First, I would ask myself ... "who is everyf***ing body?" Cuz, I think your perception is making you unhappy. I have the same problem, though with different topics. You could be "perfect" in all of the ways you think you should be, and yet would not be every single person's ideal. And that's OK. Not everybody wants to own a Porche or likes pizza or thinks Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie is attractive. Etc.

  • You shouldn't feel insecure about your natural skin color variation.guys can't say anything, their penises are dark too

    • Thank you :)

  • I'm not an expert on guys but in my opinion if a guy is horny he's not going to care if your Vjay is polka dotted.

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  • I don't feel any pressure on us regarding vaginas...

    And while yes, a dark contrast to light skin can be unattractive, that doesn't mean the p**** is useless and that he'll turn it down.

    Guys aren't going to turn down a healthy, clean p**** on a girl they're with.

    • why is everyone getting a downvote?

    • idk, but don't be one of those small minded users who acts like they spend way too much damn time here and assumes that if SOMEONE disagrees with them, it's automatically the QA. As if they are too arrogant to consider that someone could ACTUALLY not agree with what they're saying like they expected to answer and get 100 thumbs ups and no thumbs downs.

  • It doesn't matter at all. What if the guy you were going with had a darker c0ck than normal? Would that disgust you? All pu$$y is good, no matter what the color or shade.

    • I think darker penises are f***ing sexy. They match so many delicious flavors.

    • OK, so hopefully you are convinced that it doesn't matter what color/shade your pu$$y is because it's all good.

    • I am :) I just got insecure for a bit like everyone does

  • You really shouldn't. I know how you feel, I get a bit hesitant due to the color.

    Don't let it stop you from having a good time.

    • Thanks for this :)

  • The joke is that they're all pink inside. :-). The reality is that some guys are turned on by dark p**** and some are turned off. Most don't care. Theyre just happy to have access to your naughty bits.

  • Welcome the the excruciating world of a man where your genitals are vastly scrutinized and you are constantly bombarded by fitting this "perfect" genital image.

  • Women are way too hard on themselves for their appearances all the way down to the best place on earth. Honestly, we really don't care. Lighten up, don't worry about itand have a good time!

    • Aww thanks :) ba, was a slip of the click

  • Are you a black female by any chance. And no it does not make you any less of a woman. If you didn`t have a vagina AT ALL it would make you less of a woman. What kind of world are we coming to if Men or females ( I don`t know you`re sexuality) judge on the color of vaginas... Lol as long as it works that`s all that should matter. Pussy is p****, as long as it`s tight and STD free its fine with me.

    • ugh, NO. Do people not realize that black women are not the only ones on the planet who can have dark vaginas? I swear! It's like white people forget it's not just them and black people living on this planet. There are Indian females, Asian females, Hispanic females, Brazilian females, Aboriginal females, Portugese females, Hawaiian females and other ethnic groups who can have dark vaginas.

    • You immediately assume she's black...

    • k I was only trying to help...no need to snap

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  • as long as it doesn't look like blue waffles most guys wouldn't care XD

  • not a bad thing at all, everybodies body is different than others

    it is normal, many girls experience the same thing

    your not the only one

  • I love a dark p****!

  • Many women have dark vagina. Is anyone going to stop enjoying for that? Of course not.