I heard Asian has lower sex drive. Is it true?

Please don't get me wrong or get offended. I am an Asian and I am always thinking about sex. But my friends and people around me doesn't even mention sex or anything. And I do heard done people saying sex is gross and stuff. Although I am a virgin, I think sex is pleasurable. So is it true that Asians is general are not so into sex or it just that they don't show? Am I the weird one?
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  • Maybe not with you... because your a vigrin... People who have things in common talk about it...

    If you haven't experienced it you can't talk about something you don't know about... catch my drift... So don't worry if they don't talk about it around you, it's out of respect of your morals... When I'm around the guys, I don't brag about my sex life... I just take great joy that I get it everyday, whenever I want it... Don't need to go into deteals... Bedroom talk should be left in the bedroom, and when you're around others you might as well talk about other things that are more interesting or meaningful. Just because we don't broadcast it, doesn't mean it doesn't happen... Like what the others said... Asians are the largest poplulations on Earth.. That should give you a clue.

  • My wife's a Filipina, and she's quite happy with sex behind closed doors. Her Catholic upbringing makes PDA and other flirtations a no-no, which I find frustrating sometimes. I'm an American who was raised to be much more laid back about such things, but we're both working to find a middle-ground.

    As for sexuality in general in the Philippines, my father-in-law has 8 siblings and my mother-in-law has 12...

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  • youre not weird. I think it just depends on women. I'm Asian too and am always thinking about sex so you're not alone! and me and some other Asian girl friends have spoke about it since a very young age

    the only thing that seems to be confusing you is that you/your friends haven't "broken the ice" talking about sex yet? lol. but id say pretty much ALL women like sex...and imo it just depends on the lady to how muchh of a sex drive they have.

  • Depends what Asians your talking about- orient Asians - no idea all the Chinese/japaneese people I know are classy as anything and don't really talk about sex. If your on about middle eastern/ south asian- some are A couple of my mates are of south Asian and middle eastern heritage and they are horny as hell, there again they are between 18- 24 lol

  • No, it's not true. I'm Asian, I love sex, I think about it just as much as guys do, but my friends who are Asian, they love sex, but they don't talk about it, especially girls to girls. I guess you can say that some Asians aren't as open as others and there is a difference between the traditional ones in comparison to the ones not as traditional.

    • You are a hottie ;)

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  • The Asians are as horny as anyone else. The differences in why you don't hear much about it are many.

    1, they keep their activities to themselves, particularly the East Asians because it's still taboo.

    2, they are taught by their parents to wait until marriage and their partners BETTER be same ethnicity. This is true with the traditional East Asian women who really piss me off about this.

    3, Asians are really adamant about their educational goals and careers(especially E.A) in much the same way as American women are. This choice prevents dating and sex unfortunately.

    4, they are more difficult to approach and establish any friendship because of language barriers. They can also get scared by approaching outsiders, even if you can speak their languages.

    Trust me, they want sex but not now and not with us outsiders. The Southeast Asians are much more liberal about this though. I'm not including American born Asians, whole different animal

  • Remind me again which two countries have the largest populations in the world?

  • ... I love sex lol

  • I think they keep it under wraps more than any other race... but from what I've seen in p*rn, almost NONE of the girls seem to enjoy sex... they're all crying like little school girls lol.

  • that's not true for me, but my dad is English

    • why hello there cutie pie..

  • Libido does not depend on race. It is individual.

  • its jus they are not too open about it... not a free society about it so they don't speak...

    bt I guess 2 of the worlds largest populated countriesare ni Asia...

    they are into it..bt they only share with their partners...

  • No. My boyfriend is Japanese and he wants sex and talks about sex all the time. Sure, you may not see most Asians talking about it in public, but when they are alone or in a private group, it is talked about more than you think.

  • My lover is Southeast Asian.

    My impression is that her libido is far less emotional and sex with her involves far less psychodrama and angst than Anglo whites, for example. Instead, she seems to take it more like many other things we do together; even cooking!. Does she like it and does she get off? Absolutely. But I think it does not have much philosophical meaning. On the other hand, she sees it as her duty to me and rarely says "no".

    • There is a certain discreetness and self restraint in your culture. My lover does not like PDA but is very playful in private.

  • You may want to look at the two biggest populations then...